shave her arms and legs? its not like they're very hairy like males but they're just having a lil more hair than normal girls who've got theirs totally shaved. i want to ask her to shave but i don't know how to? like without her getting offended or something? help?
2006-08-18 02:42:56 · 41 answers · asked by ritz biscuit 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
that's a hard one. is she open-minded? anyway buying her shaving gel or something as a hint is rarely a good idea. so you need to talk. choose the words carefully so she wouldn't get an impression that you don't like her legs, just present it in a way that you would like to try something and see how it feels if she doesn't mind.
2006-08-18 02:49:08 · answer #1 · answered by D.J. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, for one, you can't shave your arms. I mean you can of course but the resulting stubble would be worse that the problem is now. Many women will either bleach or wax (ouch!) their arms to play down the amount of hair. But some women just have more hair. So part of this is that you have to get over it. If this is a huge deal, then maybe you don't like her as much as you think. Another option is telling her that you have "a thing" for cleanly shaved (waxed - whatever) women. You could even turn it into a game to shave her legs for her. That you find it a turn on etc. God, I hope that you are not in grade school... 'cause this last bit of advice would be way out of line. Good Luck.
2006-08-18 02:54:03 · answer #2 · answered by allseeing 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her for her birthday (or whatever the 'occasion' may be) that you are bringing her to a spa and get her one of those big packages that come with things like getting your hair done, pedicures, waxes....get her legs waxed! It will last a very long time (much longer than shaving) and she will probably love it! The next time you touch her legs tell her how much you love the feel of her sexy smooth skin...that may make her want to continue it and then you aren't directly asking her to shave her legs...as for her arms..you could get a wax for those too but I would say that most women are not into shaving their arms. Good luck! I'm sure if she loves you she will not be too offended :)
2006-08-18 02:50:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hm...i still have my arms and legs hair with me...my arms are very obvious kind..but my bf didn't even mention about shaving it, in fact he feel it's sexy and hairy person proves their sex drive is high!
Why would you want to change a person appearance when you love her?Accept how she is..Perhaps she don't like to shave it as it needs regular maintanence which i'm lazy to do it too'
If you really really wanted to shave it so much..hint her that have she shave her hairs before?If she say no, ask her why?If her reason is she don't like it, then you can forget about telling her to shave in order not to bring up a fire..
2006-08-18 02:53:47 · answer #4 · answered by barelyahrie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Step to her in a nice and sensitive way and say baby i love your skin but i would really like to see it without the hair can you shave for me. I have hairy skin my bf asked me to shave it and i did'nt feel at all embarassed. Men will ask for their women to do things for them and women will do if its appropriate. Just let her know you love her which ever way. Hope i was helpful.
2006-08-18 02:53:33 · answer #5 · answered by VANILLA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have any of you seen the 40 Yr old virgin?! WAX?! That is inhumane torture!! That hurts like hell...Maybe buy her a gift basket filled with bath salts, bubble bath, women's shaving cream and a nice set of woman's razors...maybe some candles...and MAYBE she'll get the hint..but just tell her you wanted her to feel special everytime she takes a bath *PUT baby oil in the basket too..and tell her to put that on her legs after shaving..it will make them smoothe and SUPER soft...tell her you love when she's SUPER soft!! HINT HINT! ;)
2006-08-18 02:50:47 · answer #6 · answered by just me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she is your girlfriend you should be able to ask her anything you want to without the fear of hurting her. I would say " other women have shaven legs, armpits and private parts how come you dont shave? " I think that is the easiest way to ask. or you can not shave your face and force her to ask the question and then your in. I hope i answered your question.
2006-08-18 02:49:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Has the hair sprung up overnight or have always been there?
R U seeing something abnormal in her for not shaving?
If she has not spoken to you about having concerns re: her hair then obviously they are ok with her and she with them. However, if you are feeling embarrassed perhaps you could nicely ask her if they are of concern to her. Don't push your views unto her it is her body and she may have been ok with it until you mentioned you are not happy with it/her. Be careful how you speak about this.
2006-08-18 02:56:17 · answer #8 · answered by enigma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
has she ever gone to the beach????
well take her there
umm.......like beg her to wear a bikini or something
then maybe she would be like she has to shave and crap.
Or try being honest like tell her everything and then slowly slowly bring up the topic of that she has to shave and crap.
tell her like this: "You are really beautiful i love you a lot but to be honest dont you think you have to shave your arms and legs its not that i mind but you would look more prettier than any other girl i have seen...!!!!" try convincing her some how....dont get scared its nice to be honest and cool with it.
2006-08-18 02:52:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say, baby you ever thought about shaving your arms and legs. My sister or cousin just started and she says that now they feel like a baby's bottom
2006-08-18 02:48:27 · answer #10 · answered by t4king 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋