I like compassion and an open emotional nature, but men that turn everything into a huge life or death ordeal drive me crazy..am I the only one? (i.e. Men who would rather postulate on how WRONGED and HURT they were than get down to business and try to work through it.)
2006-08-18 02:40:53 · 27 answers · asked by Kitten 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I am soooooooooo with you on this one!!!
When.. "oh lifes just so rubbish, you've hurt me so much how could you"... for like two weeks... And in the end you're screaming at them.. I ONLY BURNT YOUR SODDING TOAST!!! lol.. Be a bloody man!
Yeah I totally agree.
2006-08-18 02:45:29 · answer #1 · answered by Laydee T 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-05 02:17:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure there are a big turn off.It can be taken to some extent not overly like for each and everything they mention is so small a problem but they blow it out of proportion and make it an emotional problem of life and death.its a driving mad thing.
any thing in moderate proportion can be taken but over it it becomes a plain mockery of that person.
Men tend to automatically assume the position of pillar of strength in marriage or a family.But when they turn to too much emotional beings they tend to lose little bit of looking up to feeling by others .
2006-08-18 03:55:33 · answer #3 · answered by chocolate 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless a woman is his complete opposite in personality, she won't find that a turn on.
As a woman, I am not into the "drama queen" (or is it Drama King?) type of man. For me, It is just not kosher. I will say that it is entertaining but would I begin relationship with that type? Been there, almost done that, and it was a mistake to even start falling for that type because our personalities clashed. But for those who are on the opposite romantic spectrum, go for it. I cannot stand it personally and it is so hard to understand what another woman sees in that type of man, I mean who doesn't love a man who's sensitive and reasonably in touch with his feminine side (translation: treats women with respect, loves his mother but doesn't worship the ground she walks on)? but it's just a turn off when it goes way beyond that...and they are more emotional than me...I cannot take too much of that.
2006-08-18 02:51:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, I know what you mean, I want a man who is strong, and helps me solve my problems... instead of whining about it.. I mean, I would act a little feminist, and tell him I don't need "protection".. and all that stuff.. but somehow, I find that so atractive, a real man.. that feels strong.. besides I have the feeling that these men that are overly dramatic can't be trusted.. something rubs me the wrong way.. I have the feeling they are often cheaters, that can talk their way out of situations, and somehow make cheating on you.. your fault.. my best friend went out with a guy like that.. and always somehow convinced her that she was so cold, that he needed to feel warmth, and he had to look for it somewhere else.. I mean, come on.. don't play the "poor hurt man".. and blame it on someone else.. fight for your relationship..
Well, yeah, basically I agree..
2006-08-18 02:51:15 · answer #5 · answered by verito 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to interject on a question posed to the Ladies, but keep in mind that "men" don't get overdramatic and crave the attention instead of dealing with the problem, "boys" do that. They have yet to mature. On the other end of the spectrum, "girls" do the same thing before they mature into "women".
2006-08-18 02:46:43 · answer #6 · answered by ~Gate~ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OMG..that's so funny that you said that. It drives me NUTS when guys are like that. I'm not insensitive, but come on!! A guy should never cry more than I do! And the constant complaining and worrying about everything is definitely a turn off. Go get yourself a real man!
2006-08-18 02:45:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men and women that are overly dramatic are in my face and need to step out of my space. For me, there is no real gender involved i get put off by overly dramatic people.
2006-08-18 02:50:44 · answer #8 · answered by Ness 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
AGREE 100% !!! Drama Dudes are not a turn on; they want afirmation and attention and LOVE being the victim! me, me, me, me, me
Do these guys a favor and tell them exactly what they are: Petty and self-indulgent and unaware of the world around them. Most people won't say a word to them. It may not change their behavior, but at least they will KNOW and will never say that they didn't know they were selfish jerks.
2006-08-18 02:46:52 · answer #9 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You aren't alone. While I don't want a block of wood, I can't handle a male "drama queen". I don't expect men to as emotional as women anyway.
2006-08-18 03:21:58 · answer #10 · answered by lokai1701 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋