i used to love a guy but he said a straight no to me! but i now also love him! and from a few days i am noticing that he always stare at me! wahtever i do. when i think of him............half of my mind says that -give it another try and ask him again! and half says that-just leave it!
so, can u plz tell me what should i so! i really love him! should i wait for him to ask me out???????
2006-08-18 02:29:45 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Okay look, all girls/women go through this. It's called infatuation. The part that says let it go is your brain and the part that says go for it is your infatuation feelings. I know I'm kinda like that too. But, I think you should wait for him to make the first move. Guys don't like pushy girls.
2006-08-18 02:35:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just try being friends with him, that way he gets to know you, without the whole pressure of gf/bf thing... If its meant to be it'll happen, just give it some time.
He said no once, so you might come accross as pushy and "bunny boiler" type. If he was looking the likelyhood is he may fancy you... unless you had a huge spot or some spinnach hanging off your teeth!???
2006-08-18 09:36:09 · answer #2 · answered by Laydee T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it easy, let him do the chasing, don't let him think you are desperate, play hard to get and then see if he comes running, but don't give him the chnce to turn you down again, it will only hurt your feelings, besides there are plenty more fish in the sea and there is someone out there especially waiting for you.
2006-08-18 09:37:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on focus your attention on someone else.
It is his loss and maybe he might realise that when you are all over someone else, it works a treat.
But make sure you have a couple of girly nights out, slag all men off get everything off you chest then do it.
You will feel a lot lighter and better for it too.
2006-08-18 09:37:29 · answer #4 · answered by Angel666 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes wait Playing hard to get is better. Men love a challenge. NEVER tell a man you love him BEfore he tells you that.
2006-08-18 09:35:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't wait and don't ask him...
Keep looking....
You want someone who has NO doubts.
don't settle for 50%
you may not understand this, but it's not that you love him, it's the feelings you needs that you get when you imagine him as the guy you wished he was.
more if you want to explore your feelings.
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2006-08-18 09:37:39 · answer #6 · answered by Life Coach 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't love him. you think you do. anyway he's probably staring at you because he are looking at him all the time. let him make a move if he's interested in you. you already gave him a chance - make him work getting you now if he digs you.
2006-08-18 09:36:29 · answer #7 · answered by Fenris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whats the harm in asking him again. If he says no, it would be over and if says yes then you would have what you wanted.
2006-08-18 09:35:35 · answer #8 · answered by Coolguy_punjabi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You forgot to mention that you are 14 years young.
May I suggest you concentrate on your education, because having read your question, it is somewhat lacking!!!
2006-08-18 09:47:04 · answer #9 · answered by I_C_Y_U_R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too many fish in the sea,,give youself a break,take time to shop around,,:-)=
2006-08-18 09:35:54 · answer #10 · answered by Jcontrols 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋