I'm in tears over a girl I have been in love with for years. How can I cope?

Answer 1

You will soon realise that love is a load of nonsense and that regardless of your partner, you will become bored with them after a few years at best.

Answer 2

you obviously didn't get the shag you were asking for a few days back.
sorry, perhaps you were really down. it is difficult for anyone to advise you , as we don't have the full picture.
but with any break up , you would need to take an honest look at why it hasn't worked, and accept if you had some contributing factors to it- such as seeking the warmth of someone else. if you were 100% devoted and the perfect man, then she is the one with the problem, who is losing out.
it seems that most men would now go out and get totally smashed,i presume you may have done so. this is a temporary fix and you will need to deal with your feelings to be able to move on without being cynical. luckily men are aloud to cry these days, so get out the tissues, play "your song" and let those emo's out.

Answer 3

well my friend you need tell her, or if you have already told her then move on. Girls are like a bus. When you need to go some were you catch the right bus or may need to take a connecting route, sometimes you get into the wrong one. So move on. Nowadays the meaning of love is LUST, if you are satisfied the you will fall in love or the next one.

Answer 4

you don't give a lot of information in your question, for example, are you upset that it is unrequited love? or has she broken up with you? the best thing to do is talk to her about how you feel but don't come on too strong, you may scare her away, or move on with your life and concentrate on other things and maybe think about putting yourself out there to meet someone else? good luck and be more descriptive next time, you will get a much better answer from people.

Answer 5

It is hard getting over someone you given your heart too. But, if you do not move on then you will be sad and that will lead to getting drepressed which will lead to maybe you thinking you not worth didly. You manage to cope with faith, friends and family. Know that love will come your way again if you let your heart heal with time.

Answer 6

Lose touch with this person. They are poisioning your life and future. You deserve to find someone who can love you back.

Hang in there, I was in much the same position as you, for many years. Then I decided to end it, and go cold turkey. I'm now married to a wonderful woman who loves me deeply and really completes me. I could not be any happier.

So ditch her, and let someone else into your life more deserving. It will happen.

Good luck!

Answer 7

I believe that the willingness to surpass the moment of breakup is the most important in this process. Maybe you should try to make some changes in your life and to be opened to know other girls. And above all, try not to make comparisons. I, for example, started to go to fitness, to meet new people, to keep in touch with my friends, and... i went to a psichologist too. But now i am great. Good luck to yoy, too!

Answer 8

Move on is the best answer. I know it was hard i had the same experiance i met this guy and fell in love with he felt the same but my circumstances wouldnt allow me to be with him, he moved on and so did i but i always held a torch for this guy, one day i spoke to him and realised i wasnt actually in love with as he werent the same person as i had rememebered. Write down your feelings it might help. Otherwise you have just got to realise that if you were meant to be together you would be.

Answer 9

Get all the crying out your system mate. Then do something practical to take your mind off her. Go for a run or something. We've all been there at some point or another and it gets better with time

Answer 10

If you have not told her how you feel maybe you should, or does she even know just tell her if you wait to long,you may even have more tears,cause someone else may beat you in telling her.