in order to accommodate the erect penis. The anal sphincter is a ring of muscle that can be contracted or relaxed under voluntary control. Forced penetration may result in tearing of the sensitive skin around the anus or the sphincter itself. This may result in severe anal pain or even faecal incontinence.
Try gently inserting a lubricated finger perhaps covered by a condom or glove into the anus first. This will enable them to find out whether penetration is comfortable and enjoyable. Having managed to accommodate one finger they should run the finger around the anal canal gently stretching it. This must be done gently so as not to cause pain or injury.
Next they should try and insert two fingers. If this is successfully achieved they may wish to try with a well-lubricated penis or with a ********* (a broad-based anal dilator), dildo or vibrator (see below about the risks of sex aids and anal sex).
Gentleness, care, adequate lubrication and anal relaxation are required, not the insertive partner pushing harder! If condoms are used for penile penetration, which is advisable to reduce the risk of sexually transmitted disease, it is important to use a water-based lubricant. The insertive partner must control their thrusting, so as to give the receptive partner time to allow their sphincter to relax. With time and practice, this will become easier.
What consenting adults enjoy sexually in the privacy of their homes is their own business provided that the law does not prohibit it. The key issues are legality and consent. In the UK, anal intercourse is a legal activity between consenting men and women aged 16 and over, in both heterosexual and homosexual relationships, except in Northern Ireland where it's 17 and over. In some countries it is a criminal offence punishable by long custodial sentences, corporal or even capital punishment.
Consent freely given by both partners is an essential feature of sexual activity in a loving relationship. Many individuals, both men and women, may have secret fantasies involving anal intercourse but feel unable to discuss them with their partner. Some may try and pressurise their partner to have anal intercourse, even though the partner does not share their interest. Some partners will reluctantly acquiesce, others may be pressured or even physically forced to allow it. Forcing or pressurising a partner to submit to an activity that they find distasteful or degrading is completely unacceptable behaviour. Intoxication with drugs or alcohol is associated with lowering inhibitions and experimentation with unusual or unsafe sexual behaviour and can lead to serious consequences. It should be remembered that in the absence of freely given consent, the very serious criminal offences of assault and rape are committed. Therefore, it is essential that both partners agree that they wish to try it as a part of their sexual repertoire and that they are sure of the legal position on anal intercourse in the country of their residence.
Anal sex may include the following activities:
anal intercourse - penetration of the anus with the penis or, possibly, with a dildo or vibrator.
fisting - insertion of the fingers, hand, or even the forearm, into the anus.
rimming - oral contact with the anus for sexual stimulation.
There is a common misconception that anal sex is practised almost exclusively by gay men. This is certainly not the case. An estimated one third of gay couples do not include anal intercourse in their lovemaking with about one third of heterosexual couples doing so from time to time. About 10 per cent of heterosexual couples have anal intercourse as a regular feature of their lovemaking. In absolute numbers, more heterosexual couples have anal sex than homosexual couples.
Anal sex, if practised with care, is possible for most couples. It does, however, carry additional health risks and there are safer sexual practices that couples can enjoy. The main health risks, which affect both heterosexual and homosexual couples, are described below.
2006-08-23 00:30:56
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answered by Anonymous
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Yeah if you like a 8=====D in you A** Heck no it doesn't ewww that should be left alone for the shniting unless you like to push up the fudge browns and all that jazz........ewww you must really want to take up the offer on Shnit..........
2006-08-18 19:03:30
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answered by Anonymous
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I don't care for it,its painful and if not done right you can spend a lot of trips to the doctor.Use a lot of lubricant
2006-08-26 00:38:37
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answered by mustang 3
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For men, YES. But for women most of them hate it. It is against their nature
2006-08-25 12:14:34
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answered by evening_dewpoint 5
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Are you kidding...It`s a thrilling long lasting ecstasy focused in a specific area...It`s awesome.
2006-08-18 09:05:31
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answered by Yannis K 3
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sex is always good but you have to matanlly ready and able for that
2006-08-18 09:08:21
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answered by sansar_ooo 2
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Yes it does.
2006-08-25 20:17:23
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answered by Anonymous
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some girls like it but not all does.
will need a lot of lubricants so that when the d*** is in it won't tear the muscle and cause infections later on.
Last of all ... Hygiene ! ! ! ! use a condom pls. thanks you .
2006-08-21 00:42:40
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answered by sugar_guy84 3
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Yes, it feels very good.
2006-08-18 19:28:06
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answered by Offkey 7
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Why do you want to know? Are you interested in getting it from the back?
2006-08-22 15:13:43
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answered by Anonymous
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