Why do women have babies knowing that they can't take care of them and expect the system to get them by?

Question

Why do women get on public assistance knowing before they became fu**king pregnant that they were unemployed and couldn’t take care of a baby? We hard working people can’t even get a damn loan to help us during hard times but irresponsible women can get health benefits, WIC, food stamps, and other government funded incentives. It makes me sick. Don’t get me started on these illegal’s sucking up tax payer’s money. I couldn’t even get enough financial aid to go to school because I had no fuc**ing dependents (babies) and therefore they considered me as a dependent student. I had to borrow money but if I had 4 or 5 kids that I couldn’t take care of, government grants and loans would have been flowing out sh*ts creek. My mother couldn’t even get help for two months when she decided to take in a little girl that was practically left on her door step. They said she made too much and didn’t have a need. She couldn’t even put the baby on her fu**ing HEALTH insurance right away.

My mother and I make a decent salary (homeland security) but people and the so called screwed system don’t realize that they tax the hell out of us, my mother has two boys in college, she has a mortgage and she is a single parent. Why can’t people like us (working class people) get help every once in a while? Why do we have to be stupid irresponsible whores to receive money to get us by? What is the reward for doing the right thing in life? I didn’t do drugs, I didn’t get pregnant, didn’t go to jail and so on. What the f**k do I get? And what is the reward for the women who make rash, uneducated, irresponsible decisions to get pregnant knowing that they can’t take care of it and have more after that? What is the reward for illegally coming to the US not knowing a bit of English and having a baby? Now I know I will get some people that will disagree with this but I really don’t give a damn. They are probably the ones on the system anyway or have been on it.

Note: not all women on welfare are stupid irresponsible whores. Just the majority. There are some that really need it and are actively trying to find a job to better themselves.

some elderly people can't even get assistance to help with their medication but we can fund trash who can't keep their legs shut?

Many women would go to any lengths to concieve a baby and CAN take care of it but teenagers and irresponsible women pop them out like chickens and take for granted the blessing that they have. The government needs to be more firm with these women and the benefits that they recieve. again, some women need welfare. they could have lost their job or anything. i am not talking about those women. only the ones who take advantage of the system and keep having baby after baby.

Thank you Ricky. Just get the abusers off the system. They will find a job then.

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Answer 1

The thing is, the children that are born with mothers like these would probably go hungry at night without the system. Granted, the mothers should have been more responsible in the first place, but the babies don't get to pick and choose the good moms they want. I know all about how people can abuse the system. A cousin of mine was on Welfare for a number of years with 3 kids before she actually got a job. It was pathetic. I think that programs should only be set up for a certain amount of time for a person, because really, it doesn't take 10 years to find ONE job. People need to start taking responsibility for their lives and the lives they create.

Answer 2

Pure stupidity, lack of positive role models, not enough life education.
I had one child early in life, got stuck in the system. Hated it. Decided to educate others on the struggles of it. Welfare isn't all it's cracked up to be, some actually have to jump through hoops to get it. It's not always a hand out, it's a help up for some. I admit it wasn't easy. I waited til I was better off to have more kids, and to put myself through college. (my kids will graduate high school when I graduate college.) I have found myself repulsed though that there are some out there that abuse the system tho.
Edit.....WELFARE DOES MAKE YOU GET A JOB!! if you don't within 30 days, you lose all benefits.... even if you go to college, you have to do a minimum of 20 hrs a week. Only exceptions are those with medical disabilities or newborns. I feel tho that they should force child support enforcement better.

Answer 3

Sadly, some people can contribute nothing to society other than their love of themselves and getting pregnant. If I was you, I would stop worrying about other people. It doesn't make you happy or give you any peace of mind. Just be happy that you are somewhat free since your life is not controlled by a hungry mouth to feed.

Answer 4

mostly because these children need to feel loved, and they think spreeding their legs and having a baby will give them love. Unfortunantly they are way wrong and then they keep getting pregnant because if a guy tells them he will take care of her and loves her she beleives them. Unfortunattly I owe $30,000 in loans because my parents "made to much" and couldn't help me and I couldn't grab onto all that free money floating around. I also now can't afford health insurance and am to rich to qualify for government help and I have no children I work hard.

Answer 5

That's a good question. Unfortunately, a lot of women make it a point to have children simply so they can draw public assistance. If they draw public assistance, they don't have to work for a living like the rest of us poor slobs do.

Answer 6

Christianity, people should stop having children if they are poor, drug heads or Christians

What makes you think your better than a whore and deserving of OUR tax money, OUR means all the citizens of your country, not just the poor women that works for homeland, what happens when that job runs out, you and mom will find another government welfare job, so me and other tax payers can give you better pay while we make less, you and your mom are welfare junkies

Answer 7

The answer, in short, is Democrats.

The long answer is that these women expect their children to be paid for by the state, because THEY were paid for by the state when they were children.

The welfare system, tends to create situations that reproduce themselves.

The Republicans are in favor of merely kicking people off it after a certain amount of time (assuming they are not disabled), but the libs consider that too heartless, and all attempts to pass it have failed.

You'll find that if you took away people's welfare, they'd suddenly be able to find a job. Motivation works like that.

Answer 8

Wow. You are one twisted human being. You generalize way too much, and your suppositions are way apart from the facts. But you are right that there are two many women who have children who can't take care of them. But in most states they get so little aid that they are certainly not doing it for the money.

Answer 9

I agree - you should never have kids

Answer 10

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