i was very much in love with that guy for 2 years and he two he was just about to propose to me when suddenly instead he broke of with me but never really stopped talking to me or calling me and saying he's just not ready for marriage yet and if he ever thought about marriage it would be me but i could not go on like this and stopped calling or answering his phonecalls eight months passed by but i was still deeply in love with him. i discovered by total coincedence that he got married and was engaged all the time he was talking to me and he called me after that saying that he repents and can't get me out of his head. neverending phonecalla and saying that he will leave her ( they have no kids ) but taking no steps forward to it. then she discovered our relation and he decided to end what we had after running miles after me. i was in total rage so i called her and told her abt everything. was that wrong of me to do, did he ever love me?
2006-08-18 01:21:39 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Count your blessings that this lying emotional cheater is out of your life!
2006-08-18 01:26:14 · answer #1 · answered by kja63 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you went wrong a long time before you called her to tell her everything. how many stories have you heard about some guy telling a woman how much he loves her and that he is stuck in a nowhere marriage and will leave but never do it. as the wise saying goes - actions speak louder than words. all this time you have been surving without him and you meet up with him again and you remember all the good time now you can't live without him. what you should have done was tell him you don't talk with married men and if he is serious about you to call you when he's sorted his life out. he doesn't even sound like he's worth the trouble if he left you a long time ago for this other woman. f him.
best thing at this point is to tell him that you both made a mistake and that he needs to sort things out on his end and you don't want to talk to him until he does. why give him all the power and make you fight for him? he never fought for you. good luck
2006-08-18 01:34:56 · answer #2 · answered by Fenris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, it's over, let it go. He wasn't the one for you and he probably isn't the one for her either. He basically was still playing the field and you were doing something that she wasn't, because he hung around you for quite some time. It was wrong for you to have called her, she already knew of you and you didn't need to rub it in. She's already going thru her emotional issues with him, trust me. He's still playing the fence, because if she tells him bye today or tomorrow he'll feel that he can come running to you. Cut all communication off and start focusing on you. It's better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all. Move on, helpful tool: You can reminisce on the good times, but then revel on the hurt just as much. Some things are not worth re-living. He was just infatuated with you, he didn't love you.
2006-08-18 01:44:13 · answer #3 · answered by ksfinney17 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is the worst kind of man.
A player.
But you got lucky ~ he married some other poor, unsuspecting woman who will end up divorcing him sooner or later.
Your revenge? She'll take him to the cleaners.
Consider yourself fortunate for although it hurts now , you will love again...
2006-08-18 01:29:07 · answer #4 · answered by Angela 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him go. He's married and needs to stay there. Leave him alone so he can move on with his life, and you can move on with yours. You dont want to be the "homewrecker".
Dont call or talk to him anymore. Butt out of his life.
Trust me on this one,
You interfere with their marriage and try and break it up, You will be sorry later. Dont have time to go into all the details.
Just let him be. Move on with your life.
2006-08-18 01:29:48 · answer #5 · answered by yournotalone 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He could have been using you, or maybe he was sincere and just didn't know what to do. But, anyway, good for you to call the other woman!!!! It was probably about time that she knew what he was doing, but, don't look to him to be coming to you now. I wouldn't want him anyway after playing that little game!!!!
2006-08-18 01:28:28 · answer #6 · answered by winona e 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that's he's full of crap. I know a lot of guys who need to have more then one girl into them at the same time so they are always flirting and keeping them hot. Some ego thing and I think that he's one of those guys. I don't think you were wrong at all.
2006-08-18 01:29:23 · answer #7 · answered by Emina 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Revenge is a sweet thing - I would say it would have been more dignified and empowering to just forget about him and move on rather than snidely telling his g/f - But regardless, the rat bag will have gotten what he deserved unless she naively forgives him.
2006-08-18 01:28:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No he never loved you. He just wanted you available for a booty call so he was telling you what he thought you wanted to hear. Men do that all the time.
2006-08-18 01:27:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
whatever u do just stay away from such guys cos they are no good. i dnt care how much u love him,he's a worthless man who doesnt deserve u.by the way,if he had ended his marriage bcos of u, he might have ended it wit u if another person had come along
2006-08-18 01:29:39 · answer #10 · answered by avril m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you were wrong to do that because she didi nothing to you. you should have foward that anager to him for using you and lying to you all that time. he never loved you because he lied in the worst way and he will never leave that woman.... face it you were a booty call and nothing more than that.
I know that you have waatched lifetime movie network, they have stories about this all the time you should check it out.
2006-08-18 01:34:47 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋