I am married but my husband is very jealous is it ok for me to talk to other guys like this. I don't want to hook up just talk.
2006-08-18 01:05:58 · 38 answers · asked by ms01 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If it's causing or can cause problems.... very wrong.
2006-08-18 01:09:25 · answer #1 · answered by Private Account 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think your husband should have every reason to be concerned because afterall he is married to you. I am not for sure what you mean when you say "hook up" but I feel that when a woman is married she should never just be alone with another man. It makes sense if you are with your husband at the time. I don't know how angry your husband gets but I feel you should respect his wishes. Otherwise you need to make him aware that you are going to "Hook Up" with this guy and see what he wants you to do. Also, reverse the tables and think how it would make you feel. It is alot different when someone else is doing it.
2006-08-18 01:13:20 · answer #2 · answered by lovelyandcarefree 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It would depend on where the talking leads to. Or what the talking is about. Does your husband have a reason to be jealous, or is it just his nature??? You knew that he was this way when you got married, it was no secret, so just watch what you say or do around other guys when he is around.
2006-08-18 01:12:15 · answer #3 · answered by winona e 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I don't think there is anything wrong talking to guys but must also be considerate on how your partner feel and what topic are you discussing. I believe even married couples should still respect each other cirlce of friends and respect them as well. The situation can be even more complex if you are a working woman and have a lot of association with people, your partner should then be more understanding of your position.
2006-08-18 02:04:57 · answer #4 · answered by vosy2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How much time do you spend talking to other guys as opposed to talking to your husband? What do you talk about? Do you make it clear to the guys you are talking to that you are married and NOT looking? If it is completely innocent then there is nothing wrong with it, if it is not then only you know that. I hope you work it out.
2006-08-18 01:11:57 · answer #5 · answered by Badkitty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what you gonna say on the phone
men are jealous, thats a part of their nature.
I yhink its no problem if married women talk to other guys, but if your husband is too jealous, stop it.
In this cases it always ends in disaster.
Take care of you Family, thats the most important thing in the world.
try other amusements.
Goood Luck
2006-08-18 01:20:39 · answer #6 · answered by Koorosh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your husband dislikes it you shouldn't do it. Or if you can't have the very same verbatim conversation in front of him you shouldn't be talking at all. You cool with him talking to other women? Guys know that guys think sexually about chicks unless they're gay, so that's why. Chill. Do what your husband wants as far as respect if he's not just a jealous man.
2006-08-18 01:10:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you go to work, school or the grocery store, how do you get through the day by not talking to the opposite sex. This is not a dating site or anything close to the instant messenger. Reassure him that he has nothing to worry about, you love him and it is a form of entertainment for a few minutes when you feel like doing it. Tell him you are not looking for a new man.
2006-08-18 01:12:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All men are jealous girl. We can't just stop talking to guys. THEY R EVERYWHERE. They talk to girls so y not. As long as it is all innocent there is nothing wrong with it really but in a guys eyes, everything u do with another person that has a penis IS WRONG.
2006-08-18 01:16:26 · answer #9 · answered by why?? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is really nothing wrong talking to guys even you are married ...however, your husband is probably thinking what the other guys may be imagining about you as you chat with them..... you know what I mean ? so ,..he gets somewhat mad about you (not jealous I would think)
2006-08-18 01:12:20 · answer #10 · answered by Phantom of the Opera 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is jealous there is either some sort of guilty consience or a rough past with other women. You have to decide whether its worth the stability of your relationship to talk to other guys. If you think it is worth it you probably shouldn't be with that particular guy anyway.
2006-08-18 01:11:22 · answer #11 · answered by Rick 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋