i have a best fren ,.she is elder then me , now we are student ,and our third and last year is running .its about 1 month to complete,till now i am surviving in this city by her company. we know that after completion of our course we have to separate from each other . after our seperation ,can i live ,can i smile in near future without her . is this possible to me ? please advice me.
2006-08-18 00:45:26 · 14 answers · asked by euphoria 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Hi.
Are you sure you both are only friends? Don't you feel anything for her? I mean it may be possible that you have fallen in love with her. It's said that friendship may turn into love. If ever you are not in love with her then with time you will get used to living without her. But it will take time as you have started getting used to her. You can also keep in contact with each other although you won't get to see each other. Hope everything goes on well. Wish you all the best.
2006-08-18 00:55:10 · answer #1 · answered by mehnaazishaa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no law that says you can't be friends anymore,sure it will be hard not seeing each other like you do now but think about all of the things you two will have to talk about when you see each other again.Why not make a pact that you'll get together at lease once a year for a week or two every year,you go to see her one year,she comes to see you the next.By that time you'll both have other friends to get together with and all get together for one big Reunion.Not to worry life will go on,remember to call and write each other.Good luck.
2006-08-18 07:55:10 · answer #2 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh wow, I swear I'm in the exact same situation. I met my best friend when I was having trouble adjusting to this country, and now I hear she's moving away.
It's sad-- and I'm worried that I may not be able to enjoy living here when she's gone.
However, we as people adapt quickly-- you will form new bonds with new people- and though they may not be like her, you will love them anyway.
You can always keep in touch-- with phones, and e-mails, it may even feel as though she's still there!
2006-08-18 07:55:53 · answer #3 · answered by Fanar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes... of course... You can always find new friends but in order not to be completely be separated from her... you must have contact with each other.....
2006-08-18 07:53:24 · answer #4 · answered by "fIrE_stAr" 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you just have to face that you are going to be separated and one thing is to find new friends.. stay busy and keep your mind off the fact that you arae going to be separated..date other woman, work, find interesting things to do...and take one day at a time, maybe when she leaves you can still call her and keep in touch with her..
2006-08-18 07:57:43 · answer #5 · answered by sanangel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do you not have to speak to her again?are u moving to different worlds or something phones are going to be to expensive to call and chat with her. you will live and you will meet other people but you can keep the friendship that you have with this woman there are many ways to keep in touch phone snailmail computers . you don't have to give up your friendship there hard to find and even harder to keep.
2006-08-18 07:56:26 · answer #6 · answered by the6ccat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answer is: Yes, there are people who live alone. But I wish you good luck if founding new friends.
2006-08-18 07:51:43 · answer #7 · answered by Avner Eliyahu R 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! it is the fibre of our society. It holds us together when we on the brink of insanity. Face it who do we go to when we have a problem? our friends!!!
2006-08-18 07:53:01 · answer #8 · answered by ClintM 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course it is. You can also find new friends as well.
2006-08-18 07:49:43 · answer #9 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no...we cant live without friends...if we have problems,friends can help us...we dont have to be alone in this world...
2006-08-18 07:50:12 · answer #10 · answered by Ah Fye . 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋