i have a gf at the moment but i have also pleasured my self over guys who have nice bodys (abs)
i have dreamt bout this guy from my school and would love to see him with his top off
help :)
2006-08-18 00:41:47 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
you don't need help...you need to see him with his top off.
2006-08-18 00:45:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having a gf doesn't mean you are straight,
Having a fantasy about others guys doesn't mean you are gay,
You are in the confusion level at the moment,
Its sort of hide and seek for now,
You will need some time to look what had been hiding within you,
Its too soon to tell,
Just don't be afraid that you might be a gay/bi,
Accept yourself and be happy with it
2006-08-21 14:20:48 · answer #2 · answered by Janet Y 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most guys have at least one same-sex experience growing up, usually as a spontaneous encounter that they very quickly put behind themselves. It's normal, and it doesn't mean you'll turn gay. Also, remember that your adulthood has not fully completed - there's still time for your sexuality to develop, and my advice is for you to just let yourself be you, don't worry that you can appreciate a nice body (male or female), and whether you become a straight or gay adult, most important is that you are OK with who you are, and that you're as happy as you can be. Don't try to force these fantasies out of your head. Allow them to come and go, enjoy yourself and get rid of the sexual tension in a safe way, and remind yourself that you have plenty of time to decide who you will be. Continue to date your girlfriend, feel your feelings, and let time work this thing out.
2006-08-21 17:02:59 · answer #3 · answered by Mark L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because you enjoy a beautiful body, regardless of gender, does not mean you are gay. even if you fantasize about having sex...that is a normal and healthy activity as a sexual being. It does not mean you are gay, which btw is normal and healthy...lol. Have you ever kissed a guy? have you ever had sex with a guy? If you did and you liked it...then you may be gay or bi. If you haven't, then don't push a label on yourself. You , like many of us, may just admire a sexy body. I suggest you explore your feelings a little deeper.....and if you think you are sexually attracted to a guy...give it a whirl. You will know if that is what you really desire.
2006-08-18 03:40:16 · answer #4 · answered by crazygrl 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
some of u nob heads dont realise how much u could be freaking out this young guy with your desciptions of the gay world.
if hes school age hes just a kid and should do what he wants to do at his own pace. No rush or expectations and give yourself a couple of years to figure out whether you're bi, gay or you were just going through a phase and you're straight.
By then you'll be comfortable in ur own little world which, 1 things for sure, is gonna be full of boys and girls who fancy you whether you go for them or not :)
2006-08-20 05:01:48 · answer #5 · answered by cuteboy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that you wanting to see a guy from school without his shirt on makes you gay. Do you like to look at guys with hot abs because you yourself want abs like that?
However....if you are masturbating while thinking about other guys, then perhaps your feelings are a little stronger than that.
Who knows!
2006-08-18 12:22:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are still exploring your sexuality, and may be going through a bicurious phase. Whether you're gay depends on the outcome of it.
If you acted out on your same sex attraction and foundit "disgusting" and lost all attraction for guys, then you're probably straight.
If you find yourself no longer attracted to women, and you repeat your experiences with guys, then you're probably homosexual.
If you find yourself continually attracted to males and females, then you're probably bisexual.
To make things complicated, your sense of orientation could change over a period of time. For example, you might stop feeling attracted to women, and then it may start up again later.
2006-08-19 10:41:19 · answer #7 · answered by nemesis 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are in the Gay chatroom, and we all know that Gay is a VIRUS. SO..... You must be gay.
On a more serious note: many straight guys think about m2m sex, but your fantacies seems so vivid , you are most probably bi or gay.
2006-08-18 00:58:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are you? if you are of school age this is just your hormones running wild and you are just maybe rediscovering what your body can do . don.t worry any young boy will be going through this . only ask you one thing and that think of your girlfriend and don,t hurt her . if you are gay and choose to tell her. break the news gently and try and be friends if you can. only you can choose
2006-08-18 01:06:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need help -- you just need to believe in yourself and stop applying the values of an older culture to yourself.
I suspect that you are bisexual, if you were gay you would not be naturally sexually aroused by your girlfriend, you would have to force it.
It's all ok though. You are WONDERFUL just as you are.
Kindest regards,
Reynolds
http://www.rebuff.org
believeinyou24@yahoo.com
2006-08-18 02:25:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey man ....i think you are hetrosexual (see link to get the meaning, in case you dont: http://dictionary.reference.com/search?r=2&q=heterosexual).....means you can get laid with either of the gender.....that is you can either get laid under/over a boy or over a girl.......well some people have all the options in the world.......i think if you just can get hold of this thing in ur mind then you can actually get far better than a normal straight guy or girl
2006-08-18 00:53:27 · answer #11 · answered by DeAd MaN 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋