i went on a first date with a guy i met at work.
everything was going great, he took me out for a cofee he invited me to his apartment , i told him right away we are only going to talk and get to know eachother he agreed. everything was all good and fun until he starting pressuring me into sex and he called me his client i questioned that of course he said he was joking but that still bugs me so he drove me home and he said to call but he was mad.
question is should i see him again yes or no?
should i have given in?
he was so nice and cute but what he said made me uncomfortable
2006-08-18 00:04:23 · 18 answers · asked by Cat 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
This guy is a wrong one...either way you would have come away feeling confused - A man deep down doesn't respect a woman who puts out on a first date, there is no exclusivity in that, but when you refused he became disrespectful anyway, therefore he is a pr1ck - Move on...
2006-08-18 00:10:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No of course it isn't okay and if you have values the longer you can wait the better, I mean are you not WORTH the wait? Yes, you are. I would not see this jerk again. He got mad because you didn't give him what he wanted. Well, at least you know what he wants now. Its up to you if you're gonna be that type for him. I think you can do much better. Nice and cute ain't good enough! A good man will make you feel at home, not uncomfortable.
2006-08-18 07:11:55 · answer #2 · answered by Sleek 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No offense, but have you lost your mind? If you are having to ask this question, then you already know the answer!
My advice, RUN FOR THE HILLS!
Any man who makes you feel uncomfortable in any way, is NOT the man for you! Good luck and God bless!
2006-08-18 07:22:24 · answer #3 · answered by iLoveDawnDawn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no way a man like that is not worth any girls time, so be glad you did not give in, and dont see him again coz he will do the exact same thing again until u say yes and you dont want a relationship to be like that.
2006-08-18 07:11:07 · answer #4 · answered by Busty Blonde 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
to have sex on first date is your choice.
What is dating?
It is yours to keep him or leave him.
Having sex before marriage is not correct.
Before understanding one another, how can you do this so fast?
One more thing, boys are interested only in sex not in marriage.
But when you have sex, you should be prepared for all the consequences like pregnancy, abortion and aftermath.
2006-08-18 07:12:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
its fine to have sex on a first date iv dont it plently of times! but to be perfectly honest i dont think you should see this man again he doesnt seem very nice. he may have been nice and cute but if he can say things that make you feel uncomfortable run for your life!!!! i would! ooooo
2006-08-18 07:11:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
No one should make you feel forced to have sex. Don't see this guy again. Even if he's cute, he's a player.
2006-08-18 07:09:42 · answer #7 · answered by Private Account 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should never have sex with some one until you really know them. I think you were foolish to even go back to his apartment.
2006-08-18 07:10:52 · answer #8 · answered by MUSHMAN 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no way I wouldn't give him the time of day I wouldn't even think about sex on the first date
2006-08-18 07:09:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
no go out with him and no and u should have not given in you did the right thing
2006-08-18 07:11:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋