2006-08-17 23:38:38 · 19 answers · asked by a j 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
We have been married 23 years and have been swinging for 20. It started when medical conditions made it to where i could not have sex and I loved my husband enough to not make him suffer.
He never tryed to talk me into it.
I realized early in our relationship that there is a seperation of love and sex.
Now that we are both healthy we still participate in swapping. Mainly because it is sooo erotic watching each other in the act of sex.
Sort of like watching a live porn movie where you get to go home with the actors!!!!
2006-08-18 01:30:22 · answer #1 · answered by Ann N 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You betcha. We've done it and had good experiences with it. Those who are extremely negative or seem very paranoid about it simply don't have the facts. Do some serious research into it. You'll find that it's not as hideous an act as one might suppose. For some, that is. For others, it will never work.
For a little background, my husband and I are a normal, mid-30's, attractive couple with an excellent relationship. We are not trying to escape one another, we are not sex addicts, and we take our marriage very, VERY seriously. This is what has allowed us to do what we do.
2006-08-18 17:04:19 · answer #2 · answered by intuition897 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have the opportunity to have an adulterous affair??
Hell would have a better chance of caving in than I would having an affair. I take my Marriage Vows too seriously for that. My Wife and I got married and vowed to stay together till death us do part.
If people aren't happy being a couple then they shouldn't take steps closer to committment.
2006-08-17 23:47:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anthony 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think I would lose respect for her. There is something special about a woman with good morals. I think they are called ladies.
2006-08-17 23:48:33 · answer #4 · answered by RomCas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I think the shows help couples reunite again, and learn to appreciate better.
2006-08-17 23:43:00 · answer #5 · answered by babygirl4us 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Dear You....I don't think so...what's the point in getting married if you are still going to do that stupid stuff.
2006-08-17 23:45:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yeah, yeah, I know you'd love to get into her pants. If only you weren't married to such a skank...y'might not need to ask such questions.
2006-08-18 00:01:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, i think it would lead to jeaulosy and break up. I have heard of this happening to a few couples.....
2006-08-17 23:43:20 · answer #8 · answered by Richo Fev 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should ask these here , if any one is in sense , will not agree with your proposition .
2006-08-17 23:43:11 · answer #9 · answered by your noon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its bad for bad purpose.
2006-08-17 23:45:20 · answer #10 · answered by harvinderaz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋