just wondering bc i am....and im not sure if its the right thing or not...pls no joke answers...im serious
2006-08-17 23:16:44 · 21 answers · asked by ♥ HeartStolen ♥ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
There is nothing wrong with being inlove with your friend. It's actually something good because you and your friend have already known each other for a while, and you know you can trust him. So, its good. But you have to remember that if you have a relationship with him, and if it doesnt work out, it might be hard to get back to normal, that is before you were together. I am not saying it wont work, just if. So, it is not wrong to be inlove with your friend. Well, good luck and all the best. =)
2006-08-17 23:46:46 · answer #1 · answered by Farah_Z 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it wrong to be in love with your friend? Honestly, there's nothing wrong with falling in love with your friend. It's not illegal, nor a crime. You knew him since the beginning. I mean, he will not be your friend if you don't know him that much, right? So, there's something in him that made him a friend-quality for you. And I don't know what does he have for you to fall in love with him, but I tell you, it is what you feel. And the next thing you don't know is that... maybe he feels the same way about you. You know what I mean? He's just feeling nervous (or shy) to say it to you, and you too as well.
And one more thing... Friends tell. So, um, you might just tell him what you feel about him. And the next important thing is the guy's response. Yes or No. If yes, then, congrats, you two are more than just friends. If no, well... it's still not the end of the world or something, but one thing's for sure, he's still your friend. But don't get too affected by his "no", because I believe that there will be a 'gap' in your friendship if you took his 'no' answer seriously. Just accept it like you didn't ask anything. OK.
So just confess that you're falling in love with him. It's an act of honesty in a friendship. But hey... Action speaks louder than words... (Don't forget that) Hehe... :) You never knew, maybe you two are actually more than just friends and he's the one you're waiting for.... think about it...
2006-08-17 23:56:28 · answer #2 · answered by sirius_black2329 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with it. The only bad thing about dating a friend (If you two was to date) is that if you broke up then things might not be the same friend wise, or if you told them that you loved them, it might be different to. I wouldnt tell them you love them but maybe ask them if they feel feelings for you as more then a friend and see where it goes from there. =)
2006-08-17 23:23:07 · answer #3 · answered by Ashley B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't say if ur or he is married or not? Makes diff. I've been married for 34 yr and still love my grade school girl friend. (It's not my wife) Talk about tuff. I've never told her but she knows our friendship is STRONG!! She feels the same. She got div about 4yr ago. Now it is getting tuffer. Never give up on friendship. It will outlast anything. Good luck! It does not get any easier.
2006-08-17 23:31:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is never wrong to be in love. In your case, it might make things weird especially if your friend doesn't feel the same way about you. If he is not involved with any other girl, just tell him what you feel. If he is your friend and doesn't feel the same about you, he will help you get over it. Good luck!
2006-08-17 23:30:40 · answer #5 · answered by metztli99 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it is not wrong to be love with friend because you know your friend very well and you have also shared ups and downs with him. So why not friend. Rather I would prefer friendship before a long lasting love relationship. God Bless You.
2006-08-17 23:21:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends how you actually view it. Different people have different answers. If he/she is suitable/good to you, why not? Some couple start out with friends first. Why are you afraid of ? Not that he/she already has an significant other right?
2006-08-17 23:22:51 · answer #7 · answered by Annabelly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it's not wrong.. there are many variances of love.. the kind of love you feel for a relative, the kind you feel for your pet, the kind you feel for your partner and the kind you feel for a friend..
The only time loving someone is a bad thing is when it hurts someone, or controls you like a drug might..
2006-08-17 23:24:31 · answer #8 · answered by LokoLobo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing wrong. You have been with your friend for a while and you feel that there is something you like about him. Somehow you start think of him more and you end up loving him. Pretty normal. GL!
2006-08-17 23:26:05 · answer #9 · answered by City hunter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who told u it's wrong to be in love with ur friend . Love is friendship
2006-08-18 16:44:02 · answer #10 · answered by jeet 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋