We found each-other recently on the internet and were emailing each-other as friends. I had no inclination to get back together as it has been 18 years since we last saw each-other, I am married and him and I were friends after we broke up in HS but lost contact when he was in the Marines and I in college. I tried asking him how he felt but she intercepted the e-mail and has been harassing me. She sounds like a real B*+$# but I can be a bigger one, I just don't want to make his life hell.
2006-08-17 23:15:16 · 8 answers · asked by NotSoTweetOne 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
jus ask her 2 go n get a life....! if u've no such intentions of gettin bck 2 him thn dnt bother abt it... if she doesnt trust ur ex its her n his problm, u dnt hv 2 worry abt it..! she has no ryt 2 tell u who u shud talk n who not 2.... if she creates a bid scene jus put it gently 2 ur ex n ask him if it bothers him.. ask him if hes interstd in keepin in touch wit jus as frnds...!
2006-08-17 23:23:13 · answer #1 · answered by Ash 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm back together after many years with someone I used to live with just after HS so I can see why she's worried.
On the other hand, I think if we love someone we want them to be happy, and if they would be happier with someone else, not with us, then we should be all for them splitting up with us, let alone surely we'd rather not be with them if they're yearning to be with someone else.
Good luck. I can't imagine intercepting people's email as she did, but I don't like my guy to be in touch with old girlfriends, I don't see the point. Is he thinking we MAY not work out, so he should keep his bridges open and not burn those which still exist?
But there's nothing I can do about him being in touch with them, as I don't feel it would be appropriate to contact them. I tried contacting one, all that happened is no answer, and I'm left thinking they may still be in touch, just through channels like his tel. # at work. Now I feel I shouldn't have contacted that old girlfriend, as it is between him and me, not between me and her.
It devolves down to how much I trust him. He says
"Well I'm with you because I want to be with you more than with anybody else bec. I love YOU".
2006-08-17 23:29:20 · answer #2 · answered by strawbcat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm trying to understand how continuing to contact him because (or to prove) you are a bigger b______ will do anyone any good. If she's insecure, there's probably not a lot you can do short of getting her into psychotherapy to improve the situation with communication. If it helps you to prove what you are, keep communicating.
2006-08-17 23:48:19 · answer #3 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Back out of this while you can. Let him go his way before trouble starts. You got your life live it. Let him go it's not worth it.
2006-08-17 23:23:16 · answer #4 · answered by Sarcastic Sid 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should still back off and respect his new g'fs wishes.......#1 you are married......and #2 he is in a relationship with someone else......maybe spend the time talking with your husband instead of someone else g'f? Sorry- just being honest here
2006-08-17 23:19:26 · answer #5 · answered by awwwnry1 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Email him again & tell him how much you wanted to be with him!
Then when she contacts you again, let her know if he comes around you will shag his brains loose!
2006-08-17 23:51:54 · answer #6 · answered by lostintheclover 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell her that you are just friends and that you are married and just want to stay friends
2006-08-17 23:21:19 · answer #7 · answered by yes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me put it this way - do you think you could kick her ***? CATFIGHT!!! OI! OI!
2006-08-17 23:20:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋