The last time my girlfriend had sex was with her first boyfriend and that was 5 years ago. She lost her virginity to him. When I did it with her, it was painful for her and she bled alot. I'm really curious as to how many times did she do it with her ex-bf. That question is a bit too awkward for me to ask her.
Since I actually lost my virginity to her, I really don't know much. This is what I thought:
Lotsa sex with ex-bf = loose
Sex only a few times with ex-bf = somewhat tight.
But to my surprise she didnt seem tight at all. Yet she was still hurt by it and was bleeding. Is it cuz she relaxed a bit thats y it didnt feel tight to me? Did she bleed cuz she only had sex a few times with ex-bf? Or was she bound to bleed because I was bigger or cuz of the 5 years that passed by...regardless of how many times she did it with her ex...even though they may have done it lets say a 100 times?
2006-08-17 23:04:59 · 15 answers · asked by xwind9x 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Its called open and honest communication. Its something that exists between two adults....It entails being able to tell your partner anything, without fear of judgment, jealousy or jokes...
If you want to know something personal about a person....ASK
2006-08-18 04:58:06 · answer #1 · answered by AJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you can't tell how much sex she has had.. as with guys.. girls come in all shapes and sizes.. some are larger then others.. some not as deep as others.. I would say that if she bled she, it was either her time of month, you ripped her, or she was still a virgin. It is possible that the first guy she was with didn't go deep enough to break her hymn and she was still technically a virgin. My advise to you is let it go, don't go asking about past relationships.... Just enjoy what you have right now and leave it at that..
2006-08-17 23:12:35 · answer #2 · answered by LokoLobo 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Repeated sex with a normal sized penis will not make a woman's vagina loose. Having a baby, maybe!
You cannot find out how many times your girl has had sex unless she decides to tell you. Do you really need to know? The important thing is that she loves you now, surely?
2006-08-17 23:10:54 · answer #3 · answered by medium_of_dance 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
praise her for being worry-free. Thats not user-friendly to admit extraordinarily to a boyfriend. yet he's having sex with a minor (i'm guessing a minor) and that is prohibited and for her protection you want to ask her to record him. tell her she would not deserve it and if she hates it and needs it to offer up it really is what needs to take position. Be very supportive
2016-11-05 02:04:36 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she probably bled cause she was on her period, or she was a virgin and didn't want you to know. thats the only time a girl bleeds. if it was painful for her, she may have been a virgin and never did have sex with her exboyfriend. you will have to ask her. did she admit to having sex with her ex? or is she trying to make you think she's experienced and she's not??
she would not bleed if 5 yrs had passed w/o having sex. sorry to break it to you, the only time a girl bleeds is if she's on her period (which wouldn't cause a lot of pain) or she's a virgin.
2006-08-17 23:10:53 · answer #5 · answered by tiggerkitty3 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋
some women bleed through sex - not a case of how fridgid / loose she may be.
ask her how many times she has been with a man - if you are seeing each other - you should be able to be open and honest with each other.
Maybe she needs to see dr about why she is bleeding through sex
2006-08-17 23:09:53 · answer #6 · answered by schmushe 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You need to think about something else, Dude. That's HER personal business and I wouldn't go prying unless you want to loose your girlfriend. It doesn't matter. She obviously did not have full penetration or she was lying about the sex thing with the old bf. Now forget it.
2006-08-17 23:10:18 · answer #7 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you feel comfortable having sex with this girl you should feel comfortable asking her intimate questions.
But to answer your question, NO there's no way to tell how many times she's had sex.
2006-08-17 23:10:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
There is no way to know unless you ask her. If you really care about her you shouldnt care about what happened before you and you would leave this alone.
2006-08-17 23:08:34 · answer #9 · answered by Cat D 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
ya..agree with Cat D ... just leave the past and stay on the present..It will be much more pleasant rather then asking right??
2006-08-17 23:10:33 · answer #10 · answered by tanguohao1981 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋