Ok, I know this is kind of personal, but i want to know, me and my bf have been together for about 3yrs, and im pretty sure im ready to have sex with him, i have never had sex before, can some girls tell me what its gonna feel like so i know what to expect.
2006-08-17 22:35:36 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
Get married first before engaging in such. God bless!
2006-08-17 23:23:48 · answer #1 · answered by justurangel 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well the first thing you should do when contemplating sex is to get yourself on the pill, because when you are you, it is best to take as many precautions as you can to not end up pregnant. While you may think that he will stay with you no matter what, pregnancy can be just too much for some guys when they are young and they split. So, get yourself on the pill and get a box of condoms. Use them both. Be on the pill for at least a month before you bring up sex with the BF, cause as soon as you show interest he will want to, generally. If you are already on the pill and regulated you can go at whatever pace you want. Just make sure you take that pill everyday at the same time, get a watch with an alarm on it just to make sure.
Sex itself for the first time may hurt. If you want to have it pain free the first time, either him or you can break your hymen (What constitutes as virginity). It may take a day or two to heal and then it is pain free. Even if decide to break your hymen through intercourse it only stings for a while, so long as he has given you ample prep time, to where you are climbing the walls if he wouldn't, then it hurts even less. The more lubrication the better.
2006-08-18 05:55:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are prepared, relaxed and well, for lack of nicer sounding word, moist - it can be an amazing, beautiful, wonderful, enjoyable experience the first time, it was for me.
The most important being relaxed and comfortable.
2006-08-18 19:55:51 · answer #3 · answered by ceramicraindrops 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea it will hurt and if you dont like it you need to tell him to stop and that you are not ready im glad he waited most guys dont well mine did but he aint most guys but yeah
2006-08-18 05:42:05 · answer #4 · answered by ~*~Shara~*~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it'll hurt at first, but get it out of the way, because after that it feels awesome.
2006-08-18 05:40:57 · answer #5 · answered by viper 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it usually can be Quite painful .....Tip>>> try taking an over the counter pain killer to lessen the pain.
2006-08-18 05:42:15 · answer #6 · answered by Buda B 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hurts then it feels good u wont be sry
2006-08-18 05:45:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
its that bitter sweet pain.dnt worri
2006-08-18 08:00:55 · answer #8 · answered by swit lips 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋