Fo some of these young men Just don't care enough for themselves and care even less for you. Ladies some of these men will promise you the moon. Even thought that can't seem to get it all in a toliet. If you are not ready just say no. and if these men say I can't use protection because it does not feel right then you have enough reason after hearing that to really say no. Another thing if he is still living at home with his mother say no if he does not have a job paying over $40,000 please say no. And if he is under 18 but he promise to marry you if you do have a baby, then not only should you say no, but you should get up and run for your life... Just remember this the body that you may save will most likely be your own.........
2006-08-17 22:28:45 · 10 answers · asked by kilroymaster 7 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
am I the only one around here that thinks you are sooo right . Just the other day I was watching the Maury show and saw these girls that were having sex and pregnant at a young age . these girls have no self esteem and it's sad ..I blame the parents:) ....Almost all of them had no father ..
2006-08-17 22:37:33 · answer #1 · answered by ?heartthrob? 3 · 7⤊ 0⤋
I know what you are saying...but I don't think there is much that will help these girls or boys at that. I knew to protect myself physically and to some point emotionally and I made it through without becoming pregnant. There are a lot of young girls trying to fill a void with a baby and some that just don't care or don't care to think past the day they are living in. The best way to teach them is to let them take care of a toddler for a week. Schools always teach caring for a baby which is nothing compared to toddler-hood. If they honestly knew the consequences of their actions, they would do anything to keep from getting pregnant.
2006-08-18 05:44:49 · answer #2 · answered by chrissy757 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Oh, so I have to make over $40,000 to be worth it huh? I will have you know, I did not sleep around before I was married. I made around 19,000 when I did get married. My wife has always had a roof over her head, and food on her table. Now we have a son, and i make over $55,000. Most of your adivce is right on. But obviously you put too much emphasis on money. We were happy then, and are blessed now by being thankful for what we had. To all the young ladies, rich is not always better.
2006-08-18 05:41:49 · answer #3 · answered by Dawg Vader 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Thanks for the heads up.But i am probably older than you and i know right from wrong and the hell with marrying a guy who is under 18 yrs.old.I just got my life back and i plan on never marrying a man,i when through that and done that.No think you please.i am my own boss now and don't have to acount for my where abouts and i love that.Don't been square be fair.
Clowmy
2006-08-18 05:44:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
thanks for the message, i think the young ladies need to know themselves and what they really want from this life.
There's no rush to have a baby, Cause neither will the baby make him love you nor guarantee his life with you..
Open your eyes and see what is happening to the world cause sometimes its better to learn from other people's mistake than your own.
2006-08-18 06:05:09 · answer #5 · answered by Lomrtb2 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes what she said. I had my son at 17 and my body still is not back lol 23 now
2006-08-18 05:34:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
I UNDERSTAND DON'T MARRY A LOSER!!!
BUT YOU KNOW A LOSER MIGHT TURN INTO A WINNER !F GIVEN A CHANCE!
I THINK USE YOUR COMMON SENSE WHEN YOU PICK YOUR MATE!!
SOMETIMES IN LIFE YOU JUST GET LUCKY!!
2006-08-18 05:56:41 · answer #7 · answered by +++++ SPOOK ++++ 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
thats very stereotypical of you to say that. i am very angry with you. take it back. take it back RIGHT now. NOW I SAY . WHY THE HECK ARENT YOU TAKING IT BACK. FINE. its over between us. goodnight.
2006-08-18 05:32:21 · answer #8 · answered by IDNTGIVASHT 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
oh man, here's a misogyny...
2006-08-18 05:32:52 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋
they try but they cant.
2006-08-18 06:25:50 · answer #10 · answered by njoy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋