Wanna do something bad.?

Question

Lately I've been having the feeling of raping a beautiful women as she walks home at night. Should i give in and hope that once i do it i'll be cured? Or how can i drop these thoughts from my mind. It ain't as easy as just not thinking about it. I've been wanting to ravage a beautiful women for some time now.

Answer 1

You need help. Talk to someone at 1-800-suicide. I know you may not be suicidal, but they will listen and help you. And you don't have to tell them your name.

Answer 2

We often desire things that are forbidden but I don't know why that is. Perhaps I'll work this out shortly. And sex can be such a powerful force. For most people sex is incredibly pleasurable so I can understand why you want some. And if you want a lot of sex on a regular basis then I can understand that as well. Wanking is nowhere near as good. It's a poor substitute. And wanking probably makes you hanker even more after the real thing. I think that it's actually cruel of nature to create something as wonderful as sex and then to make it very difficult for most men to get some, let alone enough or plenty. Some men just seem to know exactly how to seduce a woman and so they end up ripping the knickers off a different woman every night. But if you are anything like me then you have no idea as to how to get a woman to want you as badly as you want her. I think that this state of affairs makes rape very tempting. So I can understand your feelings, your urges and your fantasies.

But now for a moment I think that we should look at it from a woman's point of view. I haven't spoken at length to any rape victims so my perspective is limited but I think that rape must be a difficult and disturbing experience for all victims. I certainly would not like to be a victim of male rape. But because I imagine that the main thing on my mind would be the possibility of infection with HIV and the shortening of my life, I cannot seem to imagine any of the trauma associated with anal penetration with a knife at my neck. I wonder what I would do in such a situation? I would probably look for opportunities to fight back, but it's more than possible that there wouldn't be any such opportunities. I imagine myself putting my underpants and trousers back on after my attacker has fled. In my fantasy I feel depressed, low, heavy and angry and I'm very unhappy. I get myself home, but I cannot settle. I may even have too much to drink to dull the pain. Perhaps I have lost some of my will to live. Getting on with life has lost much of its joy and pleasure. I wonder how one recovers from such a harmful experience? Perhaps the combination of positive thinking and the passing of time will improve things? Or perhaps professional help is needed?

I think that there is no question that all women would find rape difficult, disturbing, frightening, humiliating and depressing. And I think that as a result of an attack they might find it difficult to trust any man for a very long time, if not for the rest of their lives. And, of course, rape of a child or of a teenager could traumatise even more deeply making it even more difficult for the victim to achieve any degree of normality in her life.

So do you really want to be responsible for this much pain, humiliation, trauma, difficulty and misery? Do you really? Answer me honestly now. Be true to yourself. Search your heart and see if there really is that much badness inside of you. I suspect that actually you are a good person who has been really hurt by some really bad life experiences. Someone, something or a web of circumstances has conspired to label you as a bad person and your natural response to this labelling is to feel like legitimising the poisonous labels pinned on you by other people. And one way to legitimise these poisonous labels is to do something bad, to do something very bad or to do something that is disgusting and appalling. This need to legitimise the feelings that you are having in response to internalised poisonous labels is the cause of your fantasies, feelings and urges.

So first of all remind yourself that you are a good person who would never knowingly cause any degree of devastation in another human being's life. Then remove those poisonous labels that have been pinned on you by dysfunctional human beings from your past or your present (can you see how dysfunction gets passed from one person to another?). Then remind yourself that you are good person and be prepared to fight for the preservation of your good name. Don't let anyone criticise you without good reason. And explore legitimate criticism in the sure knowledge that if your behaviour has caused problems for other people then it was because you made a legitimate mistake and not because you are in any way bad. Let me know how it goes.

Just thought that I would add something about getting a girlfriend. I think that you need one, as most people do. I would say make sure you have at least a small circle of friends, some male and som female. Or your circle of friends could be larger. Many people have a small circle of close friends and a lager circle of more casual friends. All of these scenarios are okay. And maybe you have some friends from mixing with people over some hobby, some club, some interest, some activity or some study. These are all excellent ways of meeting people. Follow your heart and spend time doing the things that you love in every available moment. The more women there are in your life the better and if with some of these you quite close then this is good too. But keep an open mind because love can be highly unpredictable. One day, one of your many relationships will flourish and you will have your very own special person and she will have a special person too.

Martin Camden

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Answer 3

get help before you hurt someone, just because you feel like being violent doesn't mean its ok. call that 800 number the other person gave you and talk it out.

Answer 4

Horny men do NOT rape. ANGRY men rape.
Get some help for yourself. You need it.

Answer 5

just turn into an emo :(