I dont like oral sex, but my b/f likes it. How do I handle it, make me like it more or make him like it littel less?
2006-08-17 21:59:38 · 49 answers · asked by Mary G 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Go to your dentist, have your teeth sharpened and pointed & then give him a smile.
2006-08-17 22:05:37 · answer #1 · answered by yoyodda 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sex is suppose to be a great thing between lovers. Anything forced onto a partner taints the relationship. We do things to and for each other when we love each other, when we feel we WANT to please. Your partner should and would understand your feelings if he really loved you and allowed the two of you to grow in your relationship.
If he doesn't want to understand (its not rocket science) that you are performing an act under pressure, thus only one sided pleasure - and that borders on being sadistic - he is sexually immature, selfish, would never be a good lover nor a good partner - drop the man.
2006-08-25 20:03:46 · answer #2 · answered by lew_lewisje 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably just doesn't do it right, you should find a book that will show him how to make it pleasurable for you. As for you giving, if you don't like that then you should learn how to use your hand to help while giving oral sex, if you do this right you will have to do minimal oral while satisfying him, and he probably won't know that you aren't really giving him oral.
2006-08-17 22:06:02 · answer #3 · answered by Jim C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well no one can MAKE you do anything. And they can not MAKE you LIKE IT...if you don't than tell him. I used to love having oral sex and I still do once in a while, but I believe that it should only happen if I feel that he deserves it. Its like giving a dog a treat...you be good, you deserve the treat, if you are naughty or bad, than the only treat you be getting is what's between. If even that...
2006-08-25 07:31:22 · answer #4 · answered by missbehave252002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly I dindnt like the idea of oral at first.... I love it now. Have you tried a food thing where you put like whip cream on his thing and then lick it off??? I would also say it is something that you grow into but if you cant learn to like it you need to tell him and maybe you guys can find a happy medium.
2006-08-17 22:04:29 · answer #5 · answered by maes_quest 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you dont like getting it then just say to him that you dont really like it that much and we should try other things like sex toys. If you dont like giving it then try things that could make him taste better. If its both then sex toys is your answer. Gives you hours of fun and does turn your man on. Just relax and have fun.
2006-08-17 22:09:11 · answer #6 · answered by Pinkflower 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to explain to your partner your reasons for not liking it .. if he is a good guy then he will understand and find an alternative that you both enjoy ..
If he isnt .. well then you know what to do ..
You should NEVER do something you are uncomfortable with to please someone else .. not unless you are absolutely sure that the 'rewards' of doing it are what you want and worth the discomfort on your part - is always your decision.
2006-08-17 22:05:24 · answer #7 · answered by enzuigiriuk 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Same with my bf!! i HATE doing that for him!! This is what i did I looked my bf in the eyes and said if i do this for you then you have to do something for me so then he says alright and then i only do it for about 2 min then i get something out of it like a present or a night on the town! so that is all you have to do and if he cant live with that then leave!!!!!
2006-08-25 19:51:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suppose you mean you don't like giving head. (At least that is what I hope you mean) Put something tasty on his cock, go slow, ask him to be patient, breathe, watch some pornography prior to sex - and get turned on about giving head. It is all in your mind. 69 and you won't be thinking about giving head - you'll be enjoying the other end!
2006-08-25 17:48:22 · answer #9 · answered by amy s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him openly you dont like oral sex.
2006-08-17 22:13:36 · answer #10 · answered by dracu 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have Him give You oral them you both will Enjoy.
2006-08-25 20:00:31 · answer #11 · answered by canivieu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋