Anytime I travel outside the city, he begins to feel uneasy. He calls almost all my friends to inquire if I have been to them. Once I travelled and my phone battery went off and I had to switch it off. He called and when he wasnt getting me on the line he started to suspect I was somewhere else.
2006-08-17 21:52:53 · 11 answers · asked by efuaakyeba 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
there may be a few things going on there. Some people accuse their loved one of cheating when they are the one cheating. Some do it out of their own view of themselves. My ex-husband did this and it was hard to deal with emotionally. It is degrading and awful to do to someone. ask your husband why he is accusing you. this may clear up a few things. maybe both of you need to set some rules while you are gone for when calls are made and such. this may make him more comfortable, but may not. be careful this type of accusing can tear a couple apart.
2006-08-17 22:01:54 · answer #1 · answered by hazel eyes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Madam, if u know u love him so much please try to avoid anything that can make him suspect you and above all clear such filthy thought from him before it is too late. Something happened must have happened that he started suspecting you [u know that urself] and to stop this call his attention and explain how it all happened but don't lie to him just tell him the truth. Travelling outside the city is not bad but depending on what ground that travel calls for, is it for business or for leisure? small things matters a lot when it comes to family matters. Stop travelling if it's for leisure and if it is business try to respect urself while there [ I mean decency in dressing and in speech] can make someone suspect u and the people that know u might report to him what u have been wearing and that might cause a quarell.
2006-08-17 22:14:06 · answer #2 · answered by Adababy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds very insecure .. but this isnt necessarily the end of the world.
You need to decide if you have done anything to make him feel that way .. if not then you need to decide if you are happy to reassure him.
If you are then give him the reassurance he needs and all will be fine .. maybe extra phone calls to tell him you love him etc.
If not, then you need to sit him down and explain that his insecurity is the problem rather than your potential infidelity .. talking often helps but in the modern day we often dont make the time!
2006-08-17 22:03:42 · answer #3 · answered by enzuigiriuk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's definitely got trust issues going on. Have you done anything to make him feel that he can't trust you? Has he been cheated on in the past? No amount of assurance is going to make him trust you unless he's willing to help himself overcome this problem. You need to find out from him where his insecurities are stemming from and if it's this bad, he may need some counseling.
2006-08-17 22:08:16 · answer #4 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Has he had someone to cheat on him and do him wrong in the past? If not, sometimes people suspect cheating because they are the ones who are (guilty!) All you can really do is love him and hope he comes through. Sit him down and tell him stright up that if you were cheating you wouldnt be with him and you love him to much to hurt him.
2006-08-17 23:35:34 · answer #5 · answered by Ashley B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's okey to check on your partner and ask what they've been doing while apart from each other. But if it turns abusive, like he won't listen to your reasons and hit you...you might as well leave the fellow.
Talking it over with him will make him understand your feelings about his suspicious attitude. You must agree to work on this so both will benefit. It's nice to be of same social circle.
2006-08-17 22:08:06 · answer #6 · answered by shekinahjireh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jealous hubby syndrome He either loves you lots or is insecure or both just keep reassuring him and giving hugs& kisses And if that don;t work slap him on the head!
2006-08-17 22:01:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well when a man usually accuses a woman of cheating he is usually cheating his self i would tell him to eight er have trust in you or you cant be with someone that doesn't trust you
2006-08-17 22:06:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are there things that happened that made him untrusting? Did you lie to him or hide something that he found out?
It is either that or he has issues.
2006-08-17 22:17:01 · answer #9 · answered by krsh28 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you need this... he needs counseling or you need a divorce lawyer
2006-08-17 21:57:34 · answer #10 · answered by dosey-rosey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋