i always got jealous...even f he just look at the another girl..especially when he is talking to them..i know jealous is not gud to a relationaship...but my bf can't blame me, iknw wen i have to or not to be jealous,my bf like to flirt..even when we're together..like for instance when we're 2geder.and then i went to the restroom,when i go out from the restroom i saw him talking wid another girl.not only talking but they are laughing...just wondering when he talk to me he always shout at me..and he got mad...then we fight...pls help me...does my boyfriend still love me?....help me..
2006-08-17 21:17:26 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
damn gurl u sound ALOT like me. im the jellous type, VERY JELLOUS TYPE. it doesnt work out, belive me u need to stopp being so jellous or atleast pretend not to b or he will dump u, guys dont like to b tied down especially by a g/f. dont confront him on the spot,he'll think ur brakin his balls, just confront him while u too r alone cuz then thats whne the real him comes out, trust me itll work
2006-08-17 21:23:44 · answer #1 · answered by im all out of love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK...this is coming from a man's point of view who is going throught this very same situation right now. So, I hope you aren't her!
Some of these folks have it right. My gf is the jealous type, probably because she caught her ex-husband cheating on her a few years back and she is very wary and cautious. Although it is understandable, it isn't good for the relationship. If you can't trust, then there will always be problems and there will always be fighting and the relationship will erode and die.
I am a social person and I may be a bit flirty, but it is harmless. I love my gf, but the jealousy thing is already old and i refuse to argue about it because it is pointless and I feel I have done nothing wrong.
She wants to marry me, but after two failed marriages already, I am hesitant to marry someone who has a trust issue. I won't get divorced again.
So, you see.......if you truly love someone, you will put your trust in them. If you can't just seem to shake the feeling, maybe you should seek some counselling to resolve the issues. If not, you will drive them away, eventually, everytime.
Good luck !!!!!!!!
2006-08-17 21:44:41 · answer #2 · answered by RangerBob 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually having a issue with jealousy could be hurt from the past.. or immaturity. There is really no relationship if there is no trust. That is one that has to be learned and you have to give him that freedom just knowing that he will return. After all if he really loved you, he would never cheat on you. If you are unable to move forward on this .. maybe look into some type of counseling.
Hugs Mel
2006-08-17 21:21:33 · answer #3 · answered by jaredsmommy2004 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself one question, do you EVER talk with other guys? Not like romantically, but just a conversation. Do you have guy friends? Do you ever see a guy you know when you are out and say hello? I'm going to assume your answer is yes.
Now imagine what it would be like if every time you say hello to a male friend of yours your boyfriend went ballistic, made a scene, accused you of being unfaithful...how would you feel? The Golden Rule applies to everyone. Start treating him the way you want to be treated.
2006-08-17 21:25:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to break the news to you, but your bf is holding onto your love for the time being while he's checking what's available in the market. Girls tend to blame themselves when their guy don't treat them well or when something goes wrong in the relationship. Don't do that. Be clearheaded....if you feel you haven't done anything wrong, stand firm. Don't let that manipulative bf of yours take control of you. Ultimately, you need to be with a man who loves and adores you more than any other girl.
2006-08-17 21:26:46 · answer #5 · answered by citrusy 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
One thing you have to get in your head is that men will always look... as far as flirting... is that the only example? If you get jealous every time your man looks at another girl he'll just get better at hiding it.
2006-08-17 21:22:19 · answer #6 · answered by sarah_lynn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
holy smokes lady. i was having seizures trying to understand what you were saying with that spelling. or maybe you were having a seizure. either way, at least you admit it and your not the crazy type who cant see how crazy they really are.
but honestly, stop talking like that. unless your under 12 then maybe you have somewhat of an excuse.
2006-08-17 21:28:53 · answer #7 · answered by dsfsdg d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
- dont b so jelous.
- what do u feel if ur bf wont give ui talk 2 somebody else either boys or girls? n ur bf wont give u talk too much with them?
- what will u feel about my question, then it would b the same with ur situation where u've been so jelouse with ur bf
- dont b so emotional k.
- hope u happy always ; )
2006-08-17 21:28:01 · answer #8 · answered by annie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Easy fix...Stop Being Jealous!
2006-08-17 21:22:03 · answer #9 · answered by Family Guy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
why don't you just ask him...well not what they seem is what the feel. maybe he always shouting at you coz he LOVE you so much...
2006-08-17 21:25:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋