I really like this girl and i proposed her as well(Proposed her twice)...
But she never said yes to me.
One day out of frustration and anger i slapped her on her face.
We used to be one of the best friends before the proposal.
Now the friendship has also come to an end...
I still love her and want her to be mine.
I have said sorry to her But she is not ready to forgive me...
Now i also feel hesitant to go and talk to her ...
Kindly help wat should i do....
2006-08-17 21:06:32 · 28 answers · asked by man s 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i think you should just let time do the trick. girls don't liked to be rushed into talking to someone that there mad at. but be on your guard, a guy hit me once and he got hit right back. and you really should let her come to you when shes ready. she will come to you to. i promise. when she does, have something spacial for her, but don't seem like your trying to win her heart. best of luck.
2006-08-24 17:25:41 · answer #1 · answered by laughwithashley 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
First and Foremost you should have never hit her!!!! If she ever forgives you it will be a miracle. I don't blame her for ending the relstionship all together, friends included. If you want her to be your's and you love her, you will give her as much time as she thinks she needs to move past what you did to her. Don't be hesitant to talk to her. Sit her down and tell her how sorry you are and that you love her and are willing to give her as much time as she needs and then after a while maybe things will work out.
2006-08-26 02:49:55 · answer #2 · answered by princess_btch01 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend purposed to me about 10 moths ago and we have had our ups and downs but we still talk and we are very much in love and we just started to plan our wedding. All you have to do is call her, email her, txt her, whatever send her, her favorite flowers and chocolate and then tell her how you feel or ask her out to a romantic dinner so you can talk to her and tell her how much you love her and how much you want to be with her. If she has the same feelings that you have for her then she will come to her senses and come back, but try those things out if you havent already and then see what happens!
2006-08-26 02:20:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow I guess the first thing is go get some help...dude you NEVER hit a woman. That is just leading down a string of things that she will never forget about u. Maybe she is just playing games with u and isn't really all that interested? Try talking to her but without being pushy or maybe just start to act like u moved on, sometimes it is the challange of knowing we want something we can't have that keeps us interested and once we get it we no longer have the quest...think about it?
2006-08-25 09:08:52 · answer #4 · answered by Eastcoast beachgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The use of violence is a never!
In fact in many countries of the world you may be liable for prosecution, with potential penalties including jail term. There is not evidence, except your own statement, that she was ever, or at all, your friend.
I suggest you talk to an adviser, psychologist or psychiatrist. Only after that, and with the agreement of the professional helping you, you should approach her.
2006-08-23 11:18:42 · answer #5 · answered by regis_cabral 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one will like to get slap. If i'm her i will not forgive u at all, cos u are not in the right to slap her because you are anger that she never said yes to u.
If you can slap 1 time, for sure u will slap her for 2nd, 3rd time. Why you so violence? Please let her go. Man were not surpose to slap a girl.
2006-08-25 23:16:10 · answer #6 · answered by cool_ice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should leave that poor girl alone. she should be a memory to you.
think about it, if some chick you didn't love was angry because you didn't love her and didn't want to marry her, then she starts attacking you physically, says sorry and tries another method of winning you over. you'd complain to everyone you know about her, people she doesn't even know would hate her and then what, you find someone else and she gets jelous and kills you?
just leave the poor girl alone before you end up in jail.
AND NEVER SLAP A WOMAN, control yourself, take your anger out on some random dude that's your size. if you beat him you can feel good about yourself, and if he beats you, then your debt will be paid, so to speak.
2006-08-25 17:23:29 · answer #7 · answered by hey_finny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're a jerk! You slapped someone because she didn't want to marry you! You need some help! I wouldn't marry you. Besides, you sound gay anyway.. who ***** slaps people.. either that or you're a controlling abusive freak. Go make an appt with your psychiatrist. And leave the girl alone unless you're prepared to have a restraining order against you!
2006-08-24 10:55:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you made a big mistake. It may take time for her to say yes.It takes patience..and lots of love. If you two have been friends for an awful long time, and she said no,then she's probably seeing someone else.
Im not a boy,but i would think that it would be really cute if you apologize through the radio,dedicate her favorite song to her,send her flowers saying you're sorry and if that doesn't work,then try to talk to her.
2006-08-26 03:20:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a guy slapped me I'd leave him too. It is never okay to hit anyone. If you have anger issues you should seek professional help and stay out of relationships til you can always treat females with respect.
2006-08-24 00:06:34 · answer #10 · answered by Zoey 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I guess you showed her your true self with that slap on the face. What ever possessed you? Did you think you were going to beat her into submission? You need to deal with your anger.
Don't expect her to forgive you...and don't stalk her! Sometimes you just learn you are going to lose ...and there isn't anything you can do about it . Know when to bow out gracefully.
Chalk that one up to experience.
2006-08-23 13:58:07 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋