My friend got hit by a car whilst crossing the road... She died at the age of 20 how do you go about the best way dealing with it! i really need good advice cuz i cant stop crying!
2006-08-17 20:55:06 · 8 answers · asked by Nicole 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Losing a friend your own age is a sad right of passage in life, and the younger it happens the harder it is to deal with.
Focus on remembering the good times you had together. Do something nice in your friend's honor.
But don't neglect to get on with your life. Your friend has moved on to some other adventure now and I'm sure she doesn't want you to mope around crying.
It will get easier as time passes. These days whenever I think of my friend who died in a car crash more than a decade ago at the age of 20, I just look up to the sky and say 'Hi Jason, remember the time we got caught in a hail storm in the plexiglass smoke shack at work all those years ago?"
2006-08-17 21:11:41 · answer #1 · answered by sueflower 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Really is a tough and hard time.It is taking time to healing the lost of a friend.But you know that now she is with the big guy the Lord our God.She always is with you in spirit and she want see you happy with comfort,because she is now in the heaven with God.I lost many friends in the past 15 years and I know how difficult time is for you right now.I will pray for you that God give you the strength and comfort you need now. I am sorry you lost your friend too.But God and angels are around you giving peace,love and whatever you will need in the days,months and years to come. If you have a Bible,you can read salm 23,if not is okay,God love you and is with you and your lost friend.God bless you every day in your life and protect you.Can you please smile? That is better!!!You friend is okay with God,Jesus and the Holy spirit and angels at the heaven.Have a nice and wonderful day.
2006-08-18 12:42:06 · answer #2 · answered by cobrasnake 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to cry! There is no way you canb put this grief aside and stop feeling sad about this for a while. Pain like this will fade in time once you gave it a special place in your mind. Really, its ok for you to cry about this, when you feel ready you will stop crying.
2006-08-18 04:02:33 · answer #3 · answered by Joyce R 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
try doing something in memory of them that seems fun and will all friend of you both who are going through the same thing. and talk about why you enjoyed him/her.
2006-08-18 04:03:46 · answer #4 · answered by mysterious_yet_sweet 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you'll get over with it in god's perfect time. when? just pray for it cuz only heaven knows:P im sorry for your loss!
2006-08-18 22:44:55 · answer #5 · answered by sweet23 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm it is a veryy sad but u have to go on wid ur life cant do nething esle...
2006-08-18 04:01:07 · answer #6 · answered by ankita 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i would do put it behind me and move on it may take a while but u have to try
2006-08-18 04:02:13 · answer #7 · answered by caret8ker 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not worry sadness will gradually vanish .
2006-08-18 04:02:56 · answer #8 · answered by Nilehawk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋