i feel being taken for granted by my husband...
2006-08-17 20:53:25 · 17 answers · asked by baduy888 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I don't think that most men are insensitive, it is just that due to a womans ever changing moods (hormonal), we at some point stop trying to figure out what is the right thing for "the mood of today" and just plod along. We get the feeling that nothing we can do will satisfy you, so why try?
2006-08-17 20:59:59 · answer #1 · answered by old dude 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is just how some of us are. We are selfish by nature. I used to be that way until I came to accept Jesus as my Lord and personal Saviour and started reading the bible. Unfortunately, telling us is not going to help your situation. You have to start at the source. Talk to your husband. Share your feelings with him. I am sure he loves you very much and may not even be aware that he is taking you for granted. Effective communication is key to the success of any good relationship. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers. Peace and God bless.
2006-08-17 21:02:47 · answer #2 · answered by cave man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know your situation nor can I speak for all men but sometimes I cant take it from people (not just women) who whine as if it gets the problem solved. However, if what you do feels like its taken for granted (like dinner or what not) then ask him if he liked the dinner because you spent time in it. Find a way to tell him.
2006-08-17 21:00:07 · answer #3 · answered by leikevy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try ignoring him too. Instead, go to the spa and pamper yourself. Max out his credit card on shoes, make up and sexy lingerie. When he complains about it, give him that same look he gives you that made you feel taken for granted.
If it doesn't work, send me an email so I can give you a more detailed advice on your legal options for getting even with that good-for-nothing husband of yours. Cheers!
2006-08-17 21:02:42 · answer #4 · answered by ladyluck 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All husbands take their wifes for granted, thats y there are so many divorces. You have to ask yourself if you can handle it for the rest of your life AFTER YOU TALK TO HIM. If he is anything like my husband he still won't get it. I don't think they ever will.
2006-08-18 01:41:45 · answer #5 · answered by why?? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it from a guy, what do you mean "seem".
There have been so many instances in my own life, where in retrospect, I was a jerk, a dog ... and I eventually paid for it by my fiance of 10 years (she was in college and got her PhD, wasn't wanting to be distracted by my presence) moved to California after graduation, pretty much said come here now and be with me or forget it, and I was in a position in my life I just couldn't do it then.
2006-08-17 21:00:49 · answer #6 · answered by Carl S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
men are a different species. they do not speak woman nor understand it. men don't have the same feelings as women either. it is a cruel trick of nature that women are attracted to them and need them to reproduce.
2006-08-17 20:59:53 · answer #7 · answered by luvbuggies 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant assume he takes you for granted he may not say it but some peaple dont especialy if theyve said it once before if you seek assurance discretly slip it in to conversation or some thing like that he might just brighten your day
2006-08-17 21:02:05 · answer #8 · answered by the last fartbender 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
men just don't think the way we do... we have to set the example to show them the way, im discovering this with my bf of one yr.it drives me insane at times..lol but men are like children in a lot of ways..lmao .... sit down and explain to him in his language if you can, how his behaviour is making you feel.Gotta communicate . or it just builds up and you end up exploding!
2006-08-17 21:00:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are men. They don' t think like women. Let's not expect them to.
2006-08-17 21:35:47 · answer #10 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋