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My husband is not romantic at all. Its like he doesnt know how to be. Ive tried wine and dinner by candlelight and bubble baths... nothing helps. How can i get him to be more romantic with me???

2006-08-17 20:16:14 · 13 answers · asked by manda_gardner 2 in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

13 answers

Offer him money?

2006-08-17 20:24:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 2

Romantic does NOT have to be a la Harlequin Romance slurpy! Some guys just aren't made to be all mushy in the "classical" sense.
Romantic can be tender. Playful. Peaceful. Silly. Anything from looking at each other across the room...to starting a pillow fight, then cuddling....to bringing him/her a glass of milk at bedtime. Whatever works....

What's the kind of stuff that got y'all feeling special about each other in the past?

2006-08-18 03:58:26 · answer #2 · answered by samiracat 5 · 0 0

He might not be romantic in d way you want him to be.Maybe he is just one of those men that cant express their love in an open way like taking out for candle lit dinner and all.Also some more information is needed,like was he like this before your marriage?.suppose if he was romantic before marriage n now he is not then you need to communicate with him about it.But if he was like this before ur marriage then its very tough to make him romantic.If its bothering you very much then have a conversation about it.But be careful,as its a delicate subject.

2006-08-18 03:28:15 · answer #3 · answered by playstation-fan 1 · 0 0

Your husband does not know how to be romantic?
When he was dating you, was he romantic,?
he must have been romantic, or you would not be in love and marry right? SO WHAT CHANGED?
Do you get along with lyour husband?
WHAT DO YOU DO FOR ENTERTAINMENT?

are you both social? OR Layback,?
Do you have children?

is your husband easy to get along with,?
What does he say or do when you try to be suductive?


I Hope you can explain,, i would like to know what you think..

2006-08-18 03:36:42 · answer #4 · answered by Maureen K 4 · 0 0

if ur husband not romantic than bring some tablets of love&attraction.it might get helped 2 u

2006-08-18 03:29:18 · answer #5 · answered by zowie 2 · 0 1

I dont think you should tell him because it might be really hurt for him to hear that he is not romantic so just give him little hint like "humm...that would so cute if you take me out". or "that was so sweet when who bought who roses". you know, he might listen. its worth a try

2006-08-18 03:21:18 · answer #6 · answered by lilbabigurlb123 2 · 1 0

TELL him what you like and why. Also, find out the same from him. It's easy... COMMUNICATION.

FYI: My wife left me a little over a year ago (3 daughters together), and i KNOW that we had "a failure to communicate".

2006-08-18 03:39:03 · answer #7 · answered by flybird1988 1 · 0 0

Without personal professional counselling to both of you this problem can't be sorted out and solved. Please write to me for an appointment on a1aa69@yahoo.com

2006-08-18 03:22:47 · answer #8 · answered by a j 2 · 0 1

Bring another women in

2006-08-18 03:19:22 · answer #9 · answered by scarlet pimpernell 4 · 0 2

its 2006 alot of men r not anymore... sad but true!

2006-08-18 03:32:03 · answer #10 · answered by WWW.CASSIENICOLEPOOLE/MYSPACE.CO 1 · 0 0

get the book "Hot Monogamy"

2006-08-18 03:19:31 · answer #11 · answered by Intelligent Donkey 2 · 1 0

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