My husband has promised me over and over again that he will stay off of various singles' sites over the internet. I signed up and tracked down his profile to nail him finally. This is probably the third time this has happened. He then tells me that we were fighting and that's why he signed up and chatted. (He's a pilot and he was telling one girl that he would stop by Rome to see her and that she could teach him Italian, etc...) I feel like an idiot because I keep giving him chance after chance. What's a girl to do??? We have so many trust issues...
2006-08-17 20:15:03 · 10 answers · asked by haneen25 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
he's a pilot, that's means and he is scheduling dates with girls when he is overseas that's opportunity, and he is a guy... so you have means, opportunity and motive. that's enough to go to trial in this state. (if cheating were a crime) you don't have trust issues you have marriage problems, HE WAS SETTING UP DATES WHEN YOU CAUGHT HIM,(I've never been married but I'm pretty sure dating is against the rules) unless you are gonna low jack his *** so you know his every move he'll just be more careful and not get caught next time.
2006-08-17 20:24:29 · answer #1 · answered by Michael 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him the your are going to sign up on single sites as he has. Tell him the same reasons he gave you. If he gets mad and says no then hit him with why can he and not you.
Last he is cheating on you for sure if he is setting up a date in Rome. You might think about talking to a lawyer before you say anything else to him.
2006-08-17 21:27:55 · answer #2 · answered by Mit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do like I did. I just booted mine. But first I set him up. Fake profile and friends helped keep conversation going while I was at work etc. Then we had a girl he didnt know meet him at the designated "date" time. She met him. Sat down at a table with his back to the room and we all showed up. Of course he bolted. But I got my answers and now I can find someone who respects me more than he ever did.
They all use the same excuses for doing it. But bottom line, it starts with just looking, then just chatting .....then ...........
2006-08-17 23:04:08 · answer #3 · answered by rwdycwgrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the next time that he takes a flight, that while he is gone, I would take that time to move out while he is gone. Then when he got home he would come home to an empty house.
Can you by any chance copy off what you see him doing on the computer? Or save it to something of yours on the computer? You might need it when you are in divorce court.
2006-08-17 20:24:58 · answer #4 · answered by SapphireB 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If ya can't beat em, join em. Here is a link just for you & all the others interested. It's a 100% FREE dating site, no strings attached. There are people registered from all over the world. It's a kewl site. http://www.plentyoffish.com GOOD LUCK!!!
2006-08-17 21:08:14 · answer #5 · answered by maryannmccarthy2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
His profession takes him to different locations and cities, he gets to meet different people. Dont hound him for all you may know, he would not actually be cheating on you, dont unnessasarily suspect cause it will only break your marriage, Be a little more understanding, his friends automatically should be your friends, live like that, U will be more secure and he will be more secure.
dont jump to conclusions,
2006-08-17 20:37:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Draw a line, and stick to it. Otherwise you'll be miserable the rest of your life everytime he does it again. We all have our limits, just let him know them, and most important you have to know.
2006-08-17 21:28:39 · answer #7 · answered by avll 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
once a cheater, always a cheater :p i say dump him before he actually does some serious damage.
2006-08-17 20:22:30 · answer #8 · answered by lizzyb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him and try and make it work..if it doesnt tell him he is single for real!! and get rid of him, you deserve better!!!
2006-08-17 20:45:54 · answer #9 · answered by xcx_zqz_kvk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no trust=no marriage....bounce him and find someone who loves you
2006-08-17 20:20:56 · answer #10 · answered by Intelligent Donkey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋