2006-08-17 20:07:41 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
The solution is to become your own best friend, and maybe not help them so much as you have been doing, become a little selfish and live for yourself....good luck
2006-08-17 20:14:56 · answer #1 · answered by sonia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi like the saying goes ' A friend in need is a friend indeed". So,
if they are not there when you need them then they are not your friends at all. You made a wrong choice but that's ok. We all learn through mistakes. Don't worry someone will come shortly in your life to stand by you in all your tough times !!
2006-08-18 03:48:41 · answer #2 · answered by Raji 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my suggestion is to start listening to the voices. Sometimes the voices can be friendly. Other times they might ask you to do things that you aren't 100% comfortable with. The trick is finding the means within the madness. Good luck.
2006-08-18 03:49:15 · answer #3 · answered by Jason P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friendship is not a business. If you help somebody it doesnot mean that they have to help you back. Stop looking for help from others. Try to help yourself. Soon you will findout that, what you thought as a problem is acctually a solution.
2006-08-21 13:43:34 · answer #4 · answered by ajaykumar318 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you already have the answer.if they're not ready to help then they're definitely not ur friends.let me put it in a better way...always be helpful to everyone but when it comes to u,never expect help from anyone.this will help u feel better.
try to befriend urself and trust me it does help most of the time bcoz u can be ur best friend.
hope i was of some help to u.
good luck.
2006-08-18 07:30:54 · answer #5 · answered by asp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's what allways happen.they r not ur friend at all but u r agood person so u become ur own friend but never be shelfish as ur friends.
2006-08-18 06:04:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Human beings are selfish - all are selfish.
Now you learnt and from now on be on your guard.
Never help any one unless they deserve.
2006-08-20 12:12:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
they use you when they were having problem. they r not deserve to be called frnd. u can be ur best frnd. even if u do not get solution then we r here.
2006-08-18 03:33:12 · answer #8 · answered by richa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that tells you that they werent ur friend from the beginning
2006-08-18 03:49:29 · answer #9 · answered by stop_lyin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as they are not your friends
2006-08-21 20:18:26 · answer #10 · answered by prince 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋