I started being friend with this one particular guy for 5 months now (actually I didnt notice how long till he told me). Eventhough knwing that I'm already atrtached for 2yrs now he keep on giving me hints that he got the feelings for me. He started buying things for me. The thing that he bought are not cheap..it cost $100 and above. We are working in the same workplace meet each other everyday, eating and smoking together. Two days ago he text me saying that he love me. I've already know that this is coming..I dont wanna drag it any further I txt back say that I like him as a friend but do not love him..he txt me back asking me whether do I know that what I've said actually hurts him. and tt do I actually know that how hard he try to be my friend tt he can't take it anymore, he have to tell me the truth.His last txt msg was "I will stop seeing you. I do nt wanna c u anymore & do nt wanna be ur friend". I do not reply coz I do nt know wat to.
2006-08-17 20:02:43 · 16 answers · asked by Nora A 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
if he can not respect that you have a boyfriend and that you care for him,then you can choose other friends
2006-08-25 17:01:14 · answer #1 · answered by 'HUMVEE' 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoa, he's totally out of line! I mean, why's he acting like he just got rejected? He should understand ur feelings, and u never even said anything about not being friends anymore! I understand that his feelings are hurt, and u may feel responsible! But don't! If he really cares about u, then he will come back to u, I mean at least if u guys are friends, u r still in his life and dat's better than not being in his life at all! He's hurt no, but he'll get over it, and remember the times u guys had together! He'll still wanna be friends! Don't worry about it! Try talking to him and then giving him some space! He needs to breath out alot!
If this helped u, write back 2 me! Thanx! I wish u luck!
2006-08-25 09:09:14 · answer #2 · answered by Jetaisnesexy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you led him on.... either that or you're waiting on the latest high priced toy that he can buy you.... GET OFF THE FRIGGIN TEXT MESS. AND TALK TO THE MAN..... why does it always hafta be so damn difficult, people? learn how to use your friggin brain.... reverse the roles... if you think that your feelings would be hurt, then DON'T DO IT!!! it'll only hurt the other party... good luck and ... PS lose the blackberry or whatever is it you got
2006-08-17 20:13:52 · answer #3 · answered by Islander 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think of you've asked her to promenade and that's probable her situation she relied on you to take the hint that she loved you and needed you to ask her yet you enable her down in case you like to chat to her you may desire to start up via apologizing that's the only thank you to truly know whats incorrect
2016-09-29 09:49:53 · answer #4 · answered by sashi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him kindly- that your sorry for leading him on- all you wanted was friendship, if he can't handle that then you will respect his feelings and leave him alone- but if he were to ever get over it- you will be there for him, as a friend- and who knows maybe feelings will change-
2006-08-25 08:00:56 · answer #5 · answered by shannon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be his friend anymore. All it is doing is leading him on. I'm not saying you are leading him on, he is doing it himself. If you continue to be his friend all it will cause is hurt. Your loyalty lies with your boyfriend, not him.
2006-08-17 20:08:26 · answer #6 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what were you thinking..... and does your man know about this? sorry, but excepting gifts, having lunch and breaks together, txt each other, what was he going to think??? break it off... before it gets UGLY!
2006-08-23 18:10:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Better talk to him clearly and it is the right time.
2006-08-25 18:43:09 · answer #8 · answered by NANI 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well ithink you guys should talk this over at a place or something
2006-08-24 15:45:19 · answer #9 · answered by omusubii 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is right time to stay away from him.
2006-08-25 16:53:09 · answer #10 · answered by sanam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋