2006-08-17 19:57:38 · 8 answers · asked by may-may 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
who said it is not good???
2006-08-17 20:10:11 · answer #1 · answered by Michael 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi there,
the way you present the question is not good.
If you ask if someone can explain why drugs are not good, or gambling, or driving with your eyes closed.. i could tell you why it is not good,
Good is supposed to feel good, a divorce is terminaton of a marriage, a bond, a commitment, going from being joined together, for the purpose of a permanent relationship , between two people,
good is the joy, the hopes, the excitement, the family, the union of two people, and the families and much to celebrate,romance, passion, excitement, and so on
and if the people divorce,, it is all void, all the hopes and dreams thrown away, anger,revenge, hurt, and sadness are the end result,
To watch two people lin love, grow together in love, and laugh and play, and change their lives, and trust, one another with their private feelings, then.. it is all over, like washing the paint off of a canvas,,
personalities change, attitudes changes, families are hurtm, sometimes children are bounced around, and get lost in the shuffle.. remose, and so many other emotions come to life,, and a part of the heart has been chipped away,,and money, and environment changes from planned, intentional couples, it is not clear what every day will bring, but certainly sadnes,, is lthe result of dovorce..
Does this answer you?
Tell me why divorce is good, if you disagree
2006-08-18 03:22:38 · answer #2 · answered by Maureen K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only valid reason for a divorce would be if your spouse is unfaithful. The scriptures say this and I believe it. Notwithstanding, you still could choose to forgive your spouse and continue your marriage.
Generally speaking, it's not good because you've made a vow, it is sacred and you consider your marriage the most important commitment you'll make.
I have to say though, that the average person today is far too shallow, too self-centered and too much of a clod to understand one word of this. Please don't think I don't know that, but you did ask the question.
2006-08-18 03:05:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only times that divorce is not good is when there are children involved because they get pulled in two directions..Their lives are put in a state of disarray...They feel cheated because they can't be with both parents and miss the family time.......but they can adjust to it if both parents sit down and talk to them about it.
Alot of people can't handle the fact that their spouse has left them..and will do things to them and just make their life miserable
2006-08-18 03:07:55 · answer #4 · answered by Mrs. M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Divorce is good if you are having serious problems in your marriage.
But many of the problems can be solved, so jumping to a divorce over minor problems is not the best idea.
2006-08-18 03:37:17 · answer #5 · answered by mrlong78 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the circumstances. For me divorce was my only option to remain sane. However, we didn't have any kids to worry about.
2006-08-18 03:02:58 · answer #6 · answered by sarah071267 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's never good/easy/fun...but it may certainly be better than the current circumstances.
2006-08-18 03:04:11 · answer #7 · answered by jay.shuler 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You made a promise!!!but sometimes you have to break them...
2006-08-18 03:12:33 · answer #8 · answered by Angie29 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋