one of my best friend and i got seperated in 9th class. now we are in 10th class and in the same section.we hardly talked with each other during last year due to some problems which are till now not clear b/w us.
i really want to talk to him as a friend but he never talks to me and if he does he never looks towards me.i started all the fight but it was a year ago.
pls give some advice how i can start talking with him
i really miss him and want him back
2006-08-17 19:17:38 · 11 answers · asked by ANGEL 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
how to start talking
what should i talk about
2006-08-17 19:27:43 · update #1
Hey ANGEL, U wont be going to believe that i also had the same problem last week.Difference is only that me &my bestfriend got separated in 11th class,but hadnt talked although we,re in diff.colleges in diff. cities.Now it has been 2 1/2 yrs. since we,ve talked and even met.
But last week only i've decided to write her a letter to re-build our friendship.Today i am going to post it.So,U also do the same and take care to write all ur feelings truly,str8 from the HEART.
I AM SURE THAT WILL WORK OUT FOR BOTH OF US!!!
If u r not agree to this then wait for my bestfriends' response,then i'll tell u it worked or not.
one thing more,letter shld not be a regretful.
OK,DEAR!!!! BEST OF LUCK!
I'll pray to GOD to rebuild ur friendship!!!!!!!!!!
2006-08-17 21:06:47 · answer #1 · answered by Coolgal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hard one. Does he have any friends you could discuss problem with and let them know how you feel? Or do you have a friend that would talk to him? Sounds like you need a go between. Or you could try writing him a letter. People always read a letter because they are curious. Good luck, I think it will work out cuz you sound like you mean it.
2006-08-18 02:30:19 · answer #2 · answered by bookluffer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well me and my best friend got in a fight over his girl and we didnt talk 4 about 6 month but then we realized that we were great friends and started talkin agian so aproach him and let him know u want the friendship back that u 2 had before the fight
2006-08-18 02:23:14 · answer #3 · answered by el nene del amor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
simple, say sorry. clear all the problem. tell why u fight. well, its normal to have a fight with ur frnd but do not stop talking with him b'coz its not easy to get true frnd in this world
2006-08-18 03:53:37 · answer #4 · answered by richa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him for some days, and show him as you have no intrest in him. Finally if he like you he will talk to you himself. If he don't show any interest in you then you r carzy who his going with a selfish person.
2006-08-18 03:42:20 · answer #5 · answered by gajendra k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there must be sm miss understanding b/w u both of u clear that with the help of sm other frnd and ur problem is solved.
2006-08-18 03:30:19 · answer #6 · answered by saket the cool 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple, share all with him, you have in your mind.
If you are sorry for year's back fight then apologize or if it wasn't your mistake then explain him the circumstances to him. if he'll be kind and good then obviously he'll understand.
Best of luck !!!!
2006-08-18 02:31:56 · answer #7 · answered by Pri 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start living up to your name. Angels(godly) never keep the faults of others in their mind. forgive him. but why you want to have a relationship with him not Her. look up and have faith in god . god will fulfil your genuine desires.
2006-08-18 02:27:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is a guy apologise continuously and put on a sorry face guys actually melt down if there are a few tears.......it always works...........
2006-08-18 06:18:51 · answer #9 · answered by myrules 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that you miss him and talk about the problem you guys have and try to figure it out...
if he doen't look towards you, that means he is shy...
2006-08-18 02:43:44 · answer #10 · answered by mitchiegirl14 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋