we have married since 9 yrs,we have no child,she is more agressive in sex than mee
2006-08-17 19:15:51 · 26 answers · asked by rani_mehrani 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If you are really faithful to her ,she should be faithful to you. so keep some boundaries between you. If any one of you intrude in to others territory , they must pay the price for that. Love must be tough. Talk to her personally about the issue in a cooler manner.If she really committed the mistake and accept the incident FORGIVE her . but strictly tell her about the consequences of repeating the same.
2006-08-17 19:23:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Please don't make the mistake of taking her into life again.
She has betrayed you ! How will she feel if you went after
an other woman just becoz something was lacking in her.
Nonsense it is ! If all of us go in search of someone just
becoz there are small drawbacks here & there then there
is no difference between animals & ourself.How can she
forget the fact that she has got a sweet husband like you
with her!Not worth your affection.Leave her ! She will realise
the meaning of true love someday!
2006-08-18 05:11:48 · answer #2 · answered by Raji 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will be hurt undoubtedly,but her having a fling means she needed more in the sexual dept. somehow talk with her and find out whats missing or if she just wanted something different after 9yrs either way if true love is present on both fronts this will pass with time and trust will be rebuilt. on another note it is a touchy subject at the moment but see if protection was used,as now days you can not recover from some std's
2006-08-18 02:30:23 · answer #3 · answered by tommy e 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Reactions are individual based upon who we are and what has been experienced in your life. If you are feeling nothing or numb then perhaps you are in shock and confused. You need to explore your feelings re this. You state that your wife is more aggressive in sex than you, is this a self esteem thing and are you feeling that you were not able to meet her needs. Infidelity is often more about other things than the sexual act itself. Talk to your wife and go from there
2006-08-18 02:28:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you 100% sure she cheated? How do you know? If you can verify it, like a cop would, then I would divorce her in an instant. She doesn't respect you anymore, and she now has all the power. This makes a very unbalanced relationship. If you stay with her, it will be low-quality life.
Good luck to you!
Leafgreen
2006-08-18 02:22:26 · answer #5 · answered by PaymentKey.com 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Become aggressive your self.
Take immediate advise of a sex specialist.
Understand the function of a female body.
Sex is first, child is next.
Every woman craves to have a child of her own, as they are meant for it and you cannot snatch away that right from her.
Both of you need counselling from an expert sex specialist.
Lack of knowledge on these things are very dangerous. Both of you.
2006-08-18 05:47:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, you should get a divorce, cheating is not good whether it is the man or the woman doing it. It does not matter how aggressive the sex is, it is still wrong... If you think that you can forgive her and believe that she will not do it again, then maybe try counseling or something like that
2006-08-18 02:21:42 · answer #7 · answered by Just Me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you already proven or seen from your naked eye or just only hearsay? If so, you have to show to her that you still care for her, pretend that you never seen or heard anything against to her, or take her to a place where you can have privacy and then start asking you know or heard about the problems. This might work for you guys, I don't know your past relationship, that who commit mistake between you.
2006-08-18 02:26:37 · answer #8 · answered by art 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not very unnatural - why don't you yourself go to Delhi or Chennai and have sex with other woman - both you and your wife continue doing that for the next 1 year - if it's still a drawn game - do the same for another 3 months (extra-time!) - and go for tie-breaker (sex with HIV positive person) if nothing works !!
2006-08-18 05:50:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ouch dude... i would get a blood test to start off with. I would either go for marriage counselling and see if forgiveness and rebuilding trust is possible or seperate from her... either one is difficult. Being aggressive in sex should be looked into, it isnt healthy. I wish you luck.
2006-08-18 02:22:27 · answer #10 · answered by Foxhound 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋