ok...i had some stuff to happen with a guy that is a little older than me this weekend. i really like this guy and havent talked to him since. i dont get to see him a lot. i dont know if what happend was just a one night stand thing. how can i find out? p.s. my friend told me that she can tell that he likes me because it takes someone special to sit on his lap because he dont just let anyone. i barly know this guy. i found his number today on the netbut i dont want to call it because he is married but him and his wife argue all the time and if they arnt argueing then they are on their own side of the house. she is cheating on him and he knows it. he says he is going to get a divorce. i have these feelings for him bottled up inside of me that i need to let out and the only way i can let them out is by being with him. i cry at night because i wish i could get them out. any suggestions
2006-08-17 19:01:56 · 14 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
WoW!
I like chicks like you..........If you feel for the guy, find out where he'll be and ask him. Or, call and ask for him. All you have to say is that you are doing a survey and you need to speak with the man of the house.
2006-08-17 19:08:20 · answer #1 · answered by John M 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Getting involved with a married man is definitely bad news. Let him get divorced first then go after him. Let's say you guys got together and his wife is a psycho then what???? You'll never be at peace cuz she'll harass you and him to death. By the way does this guy have any kids, they can also be trouble for you. Meanwhile stay low key..... there are many fish in the sea..........I'm sure you're a beautiful young woman, don't let one
guy tie you down!
2006-08-18 02:13:56 · answer #2 · answered by orthogurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't mess with a married man. Even if she cheats on him it's not okay for him to do it and besides, what if he never leaves her and is only telling you that he will so you'll hang around and be the side girl. You're in for an emotional rollercoaster. If he wanted to leave her wouldn't he have done it before he sought out someone else?
You'd probably be better off finding someone unattached and with no wife.
2006-08-18 02:12:01 · answer #3 · answered by Lonesome Dove 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sister, let this fish go. Whatever his circumstances, he is married. This will only bring you trouble. Cheating is cheating no matter who started it first. If he is a real man he would not "date" until he is divorced. How can you build a relationship with someone who cheats. You will always have a certain amount of mistrust lingering.
You need to stand on your own two feet.
2006-08-18 02:11:24 · answer #4 · answered by GJ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. Divorced is one thing. Hoping to be divorced someday is quite another thing. Just find someone who does not have these complications, because a bird in the hand is better than two in the bush. You say barely know this guy so it shouldn't be that hard to move on. Fascination and love are not the same thing.
2006-08-18 02:09:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's married. Move on. Even if he gets a divorce, remember that he cheated on a wife who trusted him. You don't want to go out with him. Don't sit around waitng for him to leave her because it usually doesn't happen.
2006-08-18 02:09:01 · answer #6 · answered by aroybal854 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beware about crying guys, Not all of them are sincere. Some guys like to cry about there married life to get sympathy from girls. So beware!! I am a guy happily married but who like to hunt so I know all the tricks!!
2006-08-18 02:08:17 · answer #7 · answered by Casper 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Make sure he's for real getting a divorce. Get in touch with him and see if things are mutual. If so, pursue it. Good luck.
2006-08-18 02:05:47 · answer #8 · answered by scarletts_mommy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetie you need to be honest with him and you!! tell him how you feel and that you can't persue this realtionship unless he gets divorced and if need be give him a time line on how long you will wait!! but don't pla the fool girl!!! good luck and please make sure that his wife is cheating too!! i have been through this my self and it sucked!!
2006-08-18 03:09:24 · answer #9 · answered by munchkin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, you have to keep them bottled up until that divorce is final. Just because she cheats, doesn't mean he can.
2006-08-18 02:06:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋