ok.........this sounds a bit wierd, but whatever. ok.........my friend says that this guy i like is going to ask me out when i'm at the movies and then we're going to sit next to each other, of course. my friend told me that i should kiss him, but i've never had my first kiss and i'm 14. i don't want to freak out when i'm about to kiss him!!! what should i do?
2006-08-17 18:07:43 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Just relax. Let him make the first move. But if your really stoked about giving him a kiss take deep breathes through your nose and just do it. If you freak out make fun of your self and laugh about it. He will be cool about it. Good luck and i hope you enjoy it.
2006-08-17 18:13:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would wait untill he tries to kiss you first. Then close your eyes and don't forget to breathe. I almost passed out during my first kiss. lol. It will probably feel really weird at first, kinda like you are kissing Pinochio the wooden boy. Don't fret, it'll pass the next time around. Just don't get too wrapped up in it because that could lead to trouble...if you know what I mean. Let him kiss you first from then on, and that should keep him coming back for more. Guys get freaked when girls make the first move. Right away they think you're a ho. So go slow, and he should be yours for the keeping. Good luck and just remember, kisses are like wine, they get better with time. ;)
2006-08-17 18:18:26 · answer #2 · answered by booboobear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
May I ask why you want to kiss someone you don't know much about, and on first date? Go slow, be friends first, hold hands after you get to know each other. You are young, don't rush..it might show him you are easy or only interested in one thing and he might take you up on it....wait a few dates before the kiss. I'd freak out too if I was kissing someone I never went out with before. Good luck & have fun on your 1st date.
2006-08-17 18:15:46 · answer #3 · answered by sunnyrays61 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
AWWW...I remember those days. That's sweet. I would probably freak out if you were my lil' girl, but anyways back to the question. I went to the movies once with my lil' boyfriend at your age. My best friend and I rode our bikes all the way up there because he was going to be there and he said that he was going to kiss me. Turns out he never did. Look guys (especially young ones) are just as nervous as you are in those situations. So just chill. Be cool. And he'll be more amped to kiss you. Unless you don't want him too. You can always tell him that you don't want to go there just yet.
2006-08-17 18:21:48 · answer #4 · answered by kimberly j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just relax baby girl,take it easy. are you feeling like a kiss or are you feeling you need to be hugged and cuddled. Why do you want to show him you are desperate.Let him make the first move.Show some resistance.This will prove you are no one to fool around with or he will think you are a fast one to have a good time with and then leave you.If you kiss him first he will ask you for more and may ask you to have intercourse also.So go steady. Love him don't let lust over take you on your first date
2006-08-17 18:55:37 · answer #5 · answered by Alan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if u barely no the guy then y would u kiss him? guys only like girls that kiss them wen they first meet because they think they will have sex with them. im sure this is not the impression u want. so pleez, i am asking on behalf of all the sensible peepl in the world get to no this guy b4 u kiss him so that u no if he likes u for u or just becaus ehe wants someone to make out with jsut for the sake of it! many many girls get heart broken from this and u prolly dont want to get heart broken
2006-08-17 18:14:54 · answer #6 · answered by blondie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it until you think the time is right. You don't have to kiss him on the day that he asks you out. It's okay to wait awhile, but if you really want to kiss him, everything will be alright. It will come natural. Don't worry.
2006-08-17 18:17:09 · answer #7 · answered by the_early_november_2002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont kiss him, until he kiss you. It is very common in this age, and I encourage you to do this kinds of sexual actities, but you have to limit the stasges of the sex. Since you are very young, you could not understand all the things in sex, better to avoid sexual activities with him, other than romance.
2006-08-17 18:17:08 · answer #8 · answered by Devaraj A 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him make the first move. Let him kiss you first, you will be fine. It comes natural
2006-08-17 18:13:03 · answer #9 · answered by collegebusygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it doesn't feel ok, don't do it, boys know who and when they want to kiss
2006-08-17 18:17:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋