Unprotected Sex?

Question

I am on the birth control pill called ortho tricyclen and have been on it for almost 2 years. I've been with the same guy 4 the same amount of time. So please don't answer my question by saying I'll get STDs cuz I plan on having only 1 partner from now on. We're not married yet because I'd like to finish my studies first. Now back to my question. My BF and I have been talking awhile about letting him *** inside of me. You guys may think we're weird but we both are curious and want 2 experience it and how it feels. We've had sex without a condom a million times but I've never let him *** in me cuz I'm scared. But my sister has let her boyfriend *** in her and some of my friends 2. They say because I'm on the bc I won't get pregnant. Despite all they've said I still haven't done it. But the other day I went to the clinic to get Plan B but they wouldn't give it to me because they said I am on bc and I won't get pregnant if he cums in me. I'd like to hear your thoughts and experiences...

Answer 1

nothing is 100% effective as far as birth control outside of abstinence... also a friend of mine was on birth control and she took some other medicine that effected her pills potency and she got pregnant with her son. So regardless of how good your pills are and how good you are in taking them there is a small chance that you could get pregnant and you have to decide if its worth it...

Answer 2

It seems that you are in love or being just plain stupid. I'm not trying to be rude or anything but how could be so dumb. Why would want to risk getting pregnant or catching an STD. Have both of you been tested? I would do that first because who knows if he has cheated on you or even if you or him caught an STD before getting together. There is a chance that you both could have one and not know it. Being on the pill doesn't mean you won't get pregnant. Also just having unprotected sex without him cuming inside you can ge you pregnant. Pre-*** is said to be stronger.

But if you must learn the lesson on your own then here is what you should do. First you need to get a ovulation kit. Do this to see which days you shouldn't or should *(If you want a baby) have sex. No birth control is 100% sure proof. You need the combo of two or more birth control methods.

Answer 3

First off, He might be you Boyfriend and you been together for a while, still don't mean he wont give you an STD so keep that in mind, because it can happen. I'm sorry if you don't like that but it happens to millions of woman everyday. Because your on BC there is a chance you wont get PG but never rule it out. It happens. Condoms and BC together are more effective than a Pill or condom alone. Plan B is only given out to woman who had unprotected sex before asking for it. Plan B is a BC pill that is a higher dosage. Don't try to do that with your BC, is a special kinda pill. If you want him to ejaculate in you then. You need to worry about what can happen. If you not worried about it then go a head, but if something happen don't be surprised. But you can only make up your own mind. You also know what best for you. Good LUCK!... PS! If you looking for someone to aprove it. then.. Im sorry I didnt. But it just dumb to put your self like that.. and never listen to anyone else but your self. They will just steer you wrong.

Answer 4

If you guys haven't been tested for STD's ever then get it done because that is one thing you don't need to be worrying about, especially HIV. Okay, the risk for pregnancy on the pill is about 8% but you can use spermicidal lubricants (non-oxynol 9) too for a backup. You could also try a female condom, but I heard those aren't that great.

Answer 5

solid: you've both been speaking. you've both agreed on what occurs if birth control fails. Questions: have you ever both been examined and given a sparkling bill of health? Does she strictly note her contraceptive dosage routine and take it mutually each day? Are you both keen to quickly flow back to condoms for a cycle if she misses a dose? have you ever both EXPLICITLY agreed to be monogamous or to apply condoms with the different companions? Are you 2 open and trusting sufficient to completely talk any disasters interior the monogamy contract without it being a relationship-ending disaster? Does she actively dislike babies and exhibit a honest quantity of want to not have any? in case you answer no to any of those, you're exposing your self to a danger. i'm extreme about this. See the J. sex Res precis appropriate less than. purely 52% of couples had both companions explicitly agreeing to be monogamous, and 29% of those youthful couples who did have breached it.

Answer 6

p.s.
my sister was conceived on the pill and my sister has a adorable 9 yr old son from when she was taking bc pills when he was conceived.
i don't know why it seems like it would be so great to have your bf nut inside you. its a sticky mess that leaks out when you get up to go pee anyways. it's the gift that keeps on giving, really. not to mention if you do get pregnant.....
it's not that serious. trust me. i've been married for 4 yrs and the thrill is gone from having him nut inside me. it feels good to have that connection when he says he's about to let loose, but you get that anyways when you use a condom.
one thing also, try using the female condoms. i used them years ago and really enjoyed them. to the guy, it was like using nothing at all. plus it makes you feel empowered that you are takng control over your body and when or when not to have a baby.
how old are you??

Answer 7

You can aklways get pregnant, pill or no pill. My mother had 9 children, she was on the pill when she got pregnant with 5 of them., Just becareful. It is always a possibility. If you read the packet that comes with that pill (thats the same pill I'm on), it will tell you that 8 out of 100 women get pregnant while on that pill.

Answer 8

When taken correctly, the pill is like 98 or 99% effective. If you trust that he has only been with you and there is no chance of STDs, go for it. If you take the pill correctly and STILL get pregnant, I think it's meant to be.

Answer 9

Well........you are only slightly improving your odds of not getting pregnant by not letting him unload in you. The amount of sperm that is released during unprotected sex is enough to get you pregnant w/o ever letting him orgasm in you so technically that may make you feel better on some level; or worse I'm not sure.

In my opinion, it's waaaaaaaaay over rated. To be so focused on where you get to c*m rather than that you get to at all is just plain silly. But every man seems to have some *thing* that they just gotta have or try.... as many times as possible often, or as much as they can possibly get away with in most cases.

Answer 10

well it's supposed to work but there are cases where it hasn't
i got pregnant while taking BC and using condoms and foam, all at the same time. they tell you no birth control is 100% so believe it. if you are not ready for kids then don't risk it. i think you are being smart. take care.