would you talk to your childs father is he made the comment that you were not good looking and their were some fine hot hispanics and asians out there and that he was at a park recently but wouldnt say why and most of all says that you are a bad mother but he never sees his kid nor takes care of her doesn't buy her anything nor pays child support. but thinks that you should still do everything hes says and wants
2006-08-17 18:04:40 · 17 answers · asked by hunnie l 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Take him to court!Don't let him bug you,he is a Loser!He is just trying to make you upset.It's not good for your kid to see these things between you two!Besides you know what kind of a mom you are,and so does your child!
2006-08-17 18:31:22 · answer #1 · answered by Sweetheart 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guy sounds like a complete asshole. Go tell the courts that he isn't paying his child support. Then confront him about all this. Remember to keep your child's best interest in mind. If he's willing to change and become a better father, keep in touch with him if that's what you want. But if he still thinks that he's not doing anything wrong and he's being a bad father, do what's best for your child and keep him/her away from this bad influence. Be a strong mother for your child.
2006-08-17 18:09:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anastasia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh hell no girl forget him. He can't have his cake and eat it too. You just need to put him on child support if he ain't doing nothing for your child. You need to tell him since there are some hot hispanics and asians out there you should tell him there are some fine brothers out there, and get you a good hard working one because there are some out there. And how is he going to call you a bad mother when you are the one taking care of your child and he ain't doing sh**, you should tell him he a bad sorry excuse for a daddy not a father because he ain't one.
2006-08-17 18:11:47 · answer #3 · answered by starlight 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, I would not speak to him. He is emotionally abusive and this is unhealthy for you to live with and it is unhealthy for your child to see. The fact that you doubt whether you should talk to him is a sign. Oprah once said that doubt means don't every time.
Then, I would take him to court for child support. If he is going to be going around making other babies (and if he is cruising parks for women, it is only a matter of time before he does) you'll want to get your kid at the front of the child support train.
2006-08-17 18:11:45 · answer #4 · answered by Lady Amazed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok first off go to court get child support garnished from his pay. No job then jail. As for him tell me to kiss your azz. You are raising your child without him and GOOD FATHERS raise their daughters. You are a good mom . You let him see her out of the kindness of your heart. I know you want your daughter to see him,but he's a good example of a deadbeat dad. Treat him as such. He will see her when you get a consistant check. Let him have the other women trust me the won't have or put up with him. HE"S A LOSER
2006-08-17 18:54:20 · answer #5 · answered by tastyflow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if it were me, I'd tell him to find someone else to boss around and that he was no prize catch either. Then I'd dump him, take him to court and make him pay his child support and find myself a really hot guy who actually knows a little more about what it takes to be a man. But that's just me, you are going to do what you need to do.
2006-08-17 18:10:30 · answer #6 · answered by Hollynfaith 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes id talk to my childs father but only about the child anything else id discontinue all conversation.. he wants to control u and your emotions this is why he's doing this.. dont let him, stop him dead in his tracks.. only talk to him when u must about ur child an thats it, if he strays from the convo.. end it , if ur on the phone, hang up.. eventually he'll get the clue that ur in control of urself.. not him..
2006-08-17 18:11:48 · answer #7 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, i wouldnt talk to him, and i would wait until your kid is old enough, then tell her about him, and ask her if she wants to still see him. And about the child support, you can bring him to court for not paying, and they can make him, they can take it right out of his check if he wont pay.
2006-08-17 18:10:46 · answer #8 · answered by shopaholic612612 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take him to court for the child support and try and keep in contact with him in case he wants to spend some time with his child.
2006-08-17 18:12:53 · answer #9 · answered by lovelyaquariusfairy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uh, no! take him to court for child support and offer supervised visitations with his child. (not that he'll show up for them, from the sound of him) Find a man who thinks you're a princess too.
2006-08-17 18:09:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋