My girlfriend is being this completly different person. I have done every possible thing she wants from me, changed my personality, my life, my friends, my job, gave up tons of stuff. ditched my friends for her but none of it is enough. Never has been. And i asked her to do this one thing, granted it is big but i have gave up so much. She is not even listening to me, wont consider doing it? how do i get her to do this?
2006-08-17 17:49:34 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
>Now... listen real close....SHE IS A FEMALE...you can't get her to do ANYTHING. They are born with a need (and the equipment) to rule men (it's one of Nature's cruel tricks).
Just run (not walk) away from this creature and hope the next one is slightly more tolerable.
No sense in doing anything to anybody...just get out of the situation with your pride and self esteem intact, breath a sigh of relief and go on with life.<
2006-08-17 18:04:40 · answer #1 · answered by Druid 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's a shame but you have sacrificed too much and it sounds like you have not gotten any reciprocation.
Everyone here knows your relationship is over except you. Go find a girl who likes to do that thing you want to do before you get so far into the relationship.
Be honest about what you want and you won't waste your time or anyone else's.
2006-08-18 01:06:55 · answer #2 · answered by communion6 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should never have to change for someone to like you. You shoukld never have to give up your friends or anything else for someone to like you. You should just let her be and find someone who will love you for who you really are. A person that cares about you and your feelings would probably make you feel better about yourself and the relationship you are in. Whatever it is you are asking from her.....you shouldn't have to beg her.
2006-08-18 01:00:22 · answer #3 · answered by true blu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you are in a relationship and the other person really cares about You, you should NEVER CHANGE YOUR WHOLE LIFE FOR THEM. My answer to you is to find another GIRLFRIEND she is not worth the trouble. Find someone that wants to be with you for you.
2006-08-18 09:28:12 · answer #4 · answered by Carol W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to find a different girlfriend, one that allows you to be you. I can't beleive that you have changed your personality and given up what you enjoy for this person. She is using you. Time to stand up and be a man. Give the ***** an ultimatum....i think you could do better.
2006-08-18 00:56:31 · answer #5 · answered by lounursey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you have gave up everything and still it has not been enough then you need to not ask her for anything and leave her because she obviously dont really care about you. This is coming from a woman.
2006-08-18 00:56:10 · answer #6 · answered by tahjb 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if you are so willing to change yourself, that's only sending the message that you are willing to be changed... she'll have a blast getting u to be this way or that... take back your life, let her know that YOU are her bf, if she's not interested in who you are in the first place, then perhaps ya'll should try other things, like other people... relationships are give and take, yes, but one should never ask or be asked to do something that's not in their character... be yourself, let her be herself, and if it's not love, go out and find it elsewhere.
2006-08-18 00:57:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No matter how hard you try, you can't change her. It's time to move on, Break- up. You shouldn't have to change your personality just to stay with girl. A real girl would like you for who you are. Life is about changes and discovering yourself, it is time to move on with your life.
2006-08-18 23:07:24 · answer #8 · answered by Tucker C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't know what it is you want her to do for you, but i have 3 sons so i can probably guess what you want her to do, if she says no then quit asking her. also why would you change yourself for somebody else? if you feel you have to change for somebody then it is not love.
also just a heads up.... if she is acting different then be careful my son was with a girl for 3 years and she all of a sudden started acting different and he caught her with another guy. so be careful.
2006-08-18 01:25:56 · answer #9 · answered by ducie_01 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems like she don't care much about you buddy. Tell her the relationship isn't working out and watch her make it into a big commotion like she doesn't care. She probably wants you to break up with her instead of her breaking up with you. Try it.
2006-08-18 01:12:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋