he works at a place that usually doesnt give overtime,i am handicapped,cant drive anymore
2006-08-17 17:31:39 · 14 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
if so, don't let it bother you.
2006-08-17 17:58:26 · answer #1 · answered by J. R. 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I honestly cant tell you sweety I hope not for your sake because thats a hard thing to go through, I can offer you a piece of advice and if he brings home paystubs check it, Also you can call his work to see if hes there and if he is just make up a reason for calling. Thats the only suggestions I can give. Also wait for more evidence, cheaters if he is cheating will always leave behind some sort of trail. You just gotta know where to look and what to look for. I am not saying he is or isnt cheating but if he is then you will find out. NO one is that good at hiding things. But until then give your husband the benefit of a doubt and dont accuse him right off the bat until you have incriminating evidence to back up your claim. Also if it were me I would just come out and ask my husband about it but everyones relationships different and you do what you feel is the best course of action.
2006-08-18 00:40:23 · answer #2 · answered by hearts_bleed_dark 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey Girl,
Ya know, there is one solid truth to women as a whole. My exwife was always right on about this. Plus I tell my daughter as well... Trust your gut instinct. For women it is or seems to be 99.9999% right on. But, what do you do?
Confront the situation. And ask yourself is there a reason that he would be doing this? My reason was because that we never had sex and I had to know if I was attractive to anyone else, But I was honest with her. I love her to death and will do anything for her but I like to have sex and 5 times in 8 years was not enough. Okay nuff said. Let me know if you want to know more about his train of thoughts and direction. I really do know the direction that he may take. The important thing is how you respond...
Hugs to you girl,
jeff
jd_yost@yahoo.com
2006-08-18 00:45:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Strange, no need to jump to conclusions though. If you are worried about it. Just call him while he is at work. Have a casual conversation about whatever on your mind. After you get any evidence then confront him about it.
2006-08-18 00:43:10 · answer #4 · answered by TooSweet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What would make you jump to that assumption?
I would think you have some idea there is a reason he would...but unless you have other evidence I would not assume that one day of him working on his off day means he is going out on you.
2006-08-18 00:36:11 · answer #5 · answered by Kelli 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When he's at "work" call and see if he's there. Just pretend like you're calling to ask him to pick something up on the way home.
2006-08-18 00:37:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
either call his place of employment tomorrow, and make up some dumb excuse as to why you called, or wait and look at his check stubs when he gets them. the hours should be on there.
2006-08-18 00:39:00 · answer #7 · answered by Just Me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
could be he needs someone who can do what u cant do so check up on him by phone see if they are open and if he is there if not ull know
2006-08-18 00:36:13 · answer #8 · answered by devil_queen_biatch14 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
possible but not likely..
2006-08-18 00:37:00 · answer #9 · answered by ironica7 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have some one follow him, then you will know.
2006-08-18 00:39:34 · answer #10 · answered by moopie1do 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God knows ! Have faith if you do love him.
2006-08-18 00:37:15 · answer #11 · answered by dotab 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋