2006-08-17 17:29:50 · 16 answers · asked by nicola 1 in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
no darlin step off that train it will end badly i swear
2006-08-17 17:34:10 · answer #1 · answered by sailor 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. A good man stands by the mother of his child, at least until after the baby is born. Are you sure she's an ex? It sounds like he's trying to escape his responsibility to her. A good man doesn't go pursuing something with another girl. He sounds like a skeeze. Think Kevin Federline. What if he got you pregnant and then started falling "in love" with another girl? Seriously bad kharma to be with this guy now.
2006-08-18 00:36:55 · answer #2 · answered by mytreacheryiseternal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like drama to me. I'd rather not be involved in that type of situation. Once I was dating someone who told me that one of his exes was pregnant and he was one of two possible fathers. having a pregnant ex means fairly recent involvement and some feelings about the child. It was a screwy situation. The baby turned out to be the other guy's. By the time that was determined, we had broken up and he had another girlfriend.
2006-08-18 00:39:33 · answer #3 · answered by Cara Beth 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The baby may change the situation and if not can you live with the lifetime obligations of the child? That is your call. Me I probably couldn't the ex will hold baby over his head for years unless they have a good relationship appart. that is rare. Good Luck
2006-08-18 01:45:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you truly love this person and can handle the issues that will follow after the baby is born thats great. If not then get out of the relationship
2006-08-20 09:00:53 · answer #5 · answered by Leilani L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, you can't control love, but if it's should you be with this person regarless of being in love with them. That is hard to answer. his ex will be in your lives for the next 18 years so you better learn to get along with her. also he must not be that far out of that relationship if she is having his baby. make sure he is done with her before you jump into anything.
2006-08-18 00:36:52 · answer #6 · answered by golfnutsjosh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SURE, if you love him and he loves you back , nothing should be in between, even a baby, if you love him you accept his baby and make sure that he has a relationship with him. Now...the thing is that you are 100% sure that you will be willing to take all what it comes with it, if you are not sure don't do it, you will just suffer!!
2006-08-18 00:36:22 · answer #7 · answered by fun 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So he knocked up some other chick and just flaked out on her now? What does that say about his character? What happens to you when he knocks you up and sees someone he likes better?
Tell that loser to be a man and go be a father to the child he created.
2006-08-18 00:54:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure it is true, true, true, true luv b/c when it comes to other women having your mans baby, its definately baby mama drama. she is going to want total attention and no matter what you do, its always going to come down to his child. And I hate to say this but her too because after all she is is baby mama. if she doesnt have it then he has to get it (or he should rather). take it from me. i'm not a bad person but i do have more than one baby daddy and they have other kids too.
kandi
2006-08-18 00:35:01 · answer #9 · answered by Kandi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you love him enough if he wants to help raise his own baby?
2006-08-18 00:33:17 · answer #10 · answered by Icedcoffeelover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait i saw this on the Jerry Springer show
2006-08-18 00:34:42 · answer #11 · answered by know it all 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋