2006-08-17 17:12:54 · 17 answers · asked by tarzan 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
The best you can do is keep yourself busy. Being separated that long is not too healthy so keep your guard up and keep in focus. Maybe find a church to start attending so you can stay involved with other couples who would hold you accountable for actions that could cause harm to your marriage. Maybe join a Bible study or an exercise club. Just keep busy. And by all means Pray! God understands the most detailed prayers and he loves to hear from us! So hang in there guy. You can do this. P.S. Call her every night to ask her to come home early cuz you can't stand being away from her for so long. Good Luck
2006-08-17 17:27:58 · answer #1 · answered by Ladybug 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My girlfriend was seeing a counsler that had a great answer to this question.
If you are lonly then call a friend, enjoy the time you have and read a book, watch a movie, or go shopping, work on something that you don't have time to do normally.
Frustration...well it all depends on what kind of frustration you are talking about, rent a movie and use your hand if that is what you mean.
Other wise enjoy the missing, it will make you
enjoy her company more when she returns home.
good luck
2006-08-18 00:47:11 · answer #2 · answered by Not a Daddys Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try reading or taking up a hobby. my wife had to leave to go to london to sit her final bar exams she was gone for allmost 14 months, i not only got lonly but horny allso, i found that by reading a good books,taking up a new hobby and yes goin to church helped me to stay focus on the trus picture my wife. try staying around positive people like your wifes family you will definatly stay focus being around them .
2006-08-18 00:21:27 · answer #3 · answered by gasmanrolle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever you do, make sure that it is something positive. Do things that you never got a chance to do, like take a class. Please, by all means, do not use pornography as a cure for loneliness; all the guys I know who are into that are deeply unhappy, jackass losers!
2006-08-18 00:19:44 · answer #4 · answered by JEFFAVEGRL 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yahoo messenger with webcam is nice. It's like a video phone.
2006-08-18 00:16:51 · answer #5 · answered by Mama R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have sex with the pillows .. lol jk
ummm .. think of those single ones that have no wifes period.
2006-08-18 00:17:46 · answer #6 · answered by Duda .. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go rent some pornos, buy magazines, get some toys, there is allot of stuff that you can do. maybe even have phone sex with her.
2006-08-18 06:43:43 · answer #7 · answered by korie v 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
concilin
take a trip visit sum one in da fam
2006-08-18 00:18:14 · answer #8 · answered by poohpooh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call her, get a webcam and have bth of you set it up so yo ucan see each other, send pictures, whatever you do don't cheat!!!!! let your frustration out in the gym on a punching bag or take some courses!!! don't cheat on your wife!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-08-18 00:17:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
surf the internet
2006-08-18 00:22:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋