After my boyfriend bangs me, their is blood on his fingers and I don't even have my menstrul period. Sometimes while he is banging me, my vagina bleeds. I have no idea what it is or what's going on and i'm afraid to tell my parents. In addition, it has like a foul smell. Im scared, What should i do?
2006-08-17 17:01:47 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
Well, it could be that he's too rough with you. Or maybe there really is something wrong. You might want to get checked out just in case.
2006-08-17 17:06:42 · answer #1 · answered by dimkaluv 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First off, take it easy! Banging,((and believe me, I know)) can cause problems because if it is hard sex, it can cause small tears in your vaginal canal (thus causing the bleeding). Therefore, everytime you "bang", you could be doing it too hard and also if you have quite the sexual appatite, you could be having sex too hard too often, and that doesn't give your body time to heal after such exertion...it could also be another thing, do you get regular pap smears? That is something that you should be considering since sex is apart of your life. It is crucial to have a pap smear once every year. It could give you peace of mind getting that out of the way so that your healthcare provider can determine if it is rough sex or something a little more serious. Go to the doctor, and get an analysis. Oh, if you use tampons, use them exactly the way that you are supposed to. Tampons, in rare situations, can cause tss, Toxic Shock Syndrome, it is where your body isn't getting rid of unused material (aka, pre placental material, your not going to have a baby so your body sloths off what it doesn't need, "period") because of the misuse of tampons. Best Advice: See a doctor, don't do this on your own!!!
2006-08-17 17:15:40 · answer #2 · answered by Lyndsey H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The blood could just be from the trauma of sex. The foul smell concerns me though. You should have a natural, earthy smell. The foul odor indicates an infection somewhere. Tell your mom that something isn't right with you in regards to that and tell her you have a strange odor. You need to see a doctor. If you let it go, it may develop into something more serious.
2006-08-17 17:11:06 · answer #3 · answered by Bingo's Mommy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Before i answer, please make sure you use protection. It wont help bleeding but if you dont want to tell your parents about this, im sure you dont want to have to explain a baby.
When you have intercourse he maybe hitting your cirvux which is being irratated and is causing the bleeding. Depending on this fingers, and penis he may also be streaching you or irratating your insides which can cause bleeding.
My best advice for you is to refrain from sexual activity for a few days, maybe a week or two to heal. If your still having problems then the next time you see your family doctor you should mention it. The doctor will not tell your parents about your sexual activity as long as it is consentual (the sex).
2006-08-17 17:10:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Go to the doctor. I know its scarry to tell your parents but you need to go. You could be pregnant if your not having your periods and possibly miscarrying but if you have a foul smell then it usually means there is bacteria or infection. Its tell tale signs of an STD. Get it checked. Not all bacterias are STD's but you need to get them checked because it could hurt you more than him in the long run. Even if you have to go and not tell your parents, Just go PLEASE
kandi
2006-08-17 17:09:07 · answer #5 · answered by Kandi 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It could also be that the lining of the uterus is dangerously thin and you are having break through bleeding. See a doctor asap, the last thing you want is to hemorrhage. Tell your boyfriend to quit "banging" you and make love to you instead...
2006-08-17 17:17:48 · answer #6 · answered by WitchTwo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, if you're not even old enough to be able to spell menstrual, much less be menstrual, I would say you have no business "banging". Secondly, now that you've got yourself into this situation, you're going to need to own up to it, tell your parents, and have them take you to see a doctor. I hate to tell you, but you do have a serious health concern on your hands here. You and your nasty boyfriend. He may have to go to the doctor as well.
2006-08-17 17:09:30 · answer #7 · answered by elk312 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't know how old you are and i don't know how long you've been having sex but mayb your boyfriend has a big penis..i don't know. You really need to see a Doctor. The foul smell is a big red flag. Good luck!
2006-08-17 17:09:16 · answer #8 · answered by Christy 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You need to see your doctor and get a check up. You may have an infection of the cervix that causes the cervix to bleed when you have sex.
2006-08-17 17:09:48 · answer #9 · answered by Diane D 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend's fingernails may be tearing your VERY delicate vaginal walls. While bleeding is completely normal, you want to make sure that he has thoroughly washed his hands and that you use gloves whenever possible whenever you have sexual contact. If he puts lube on the gloves, that should also help.
2006-08-17 17:06:44 · answer #10 · answered by Samantha 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋