do you think there is such an age that is too young to say you are litterally in love with someone? if so what age do you think would be too young?and please explain your answer. (why do i ask this...cuz some people say that "teenagers are too young to say they are in love cuz they don't really know what love is they are too young to understand it.") so i just wanna know what you think.
2006-08-17 16:44:49 · 21 answers · asked by I Luv Joel Madden!! 6 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
there are a lot of aspects to love then just the physical attraction. Love is being there for your love, even though your not in the best of mood either, always making time for them if they really need you. Always there to discuss things and do be serious. To always want to be with them. Love is also being a provider, helping when you don't have to. Love isn't a simple concept and there are things about love that I bet the elderly are still learning about. Can you actually cope with the person you love, do you always have the best of times, could you have silences that aren't awkward? There isn't an age for love, you just have to be ready for it. To not ever cheat, to lust over another women or man while your with your love. To be there to comfort them when they are in need. Love is HUGE! Lust is simple. This is just what I have gotten out of thinking about what love really is, but the ULTIMATE LOVE SACRIFICE, is taking the bullet for somebody you love. Taking their place so they don't have to suffer. That's what Jesus Christ did for us. He is love.
2006-08-17 16:57:21 · answer #1 · answered by 96.7 KCAL ROCKS!!! 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think the main problem people see is that teenage love also involves teenage politics. So people just like the "popular" people for the most part and only because they are popular. So teenagers more so "follow the herd" more so than think for themselves.
There is also the factor that it may be merely an infatuation than love, and at a young age it is hard to distinguish the too.
Basically, I think knowing love comes with maturity, and I do believe that teenagers can have that level of maturity, and quite a few people even in their thirties lack it still.
2006-08-17 16:58:34 · answer #2 · answered by RTFM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I kinda agree with some older parents that say that. I don't think 13 can be considered LOVE, nor 14, maybe 15 either (I'm not 15, but I will be Sunday) unless you think you're ready to spend life and marriage, and even have kids with the person you think you're ready for. But, I always thought everybody should at least have a life, do things and just experience things before marriage, heck, nobody really needs a bf/gf unless they're trying to get out of the houde or something, if that's the case, I don't really blame them. As for other peeps, naw, not till they're in their 20's 30's or something like that.
2006-08-18 08:57:04 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you can love someone as a teenager in a very passionate and almost irrational way, as an adult you learn from that and learn to love in a more sensible way.
I loved some one when i was 16 and married him..it is now almost 10 years later.
People usually tell you that because they worry about settling down to soon and not living life to your potential with out that person, or putting yourself in situations that are permanent. however only you know if you are in love, and yes i did love someone else before him too, and still hold a soft spot for that person too.
but dont grow up to fast, only time will tell if it is love so be wary .
2006-08-17 16:55:17 · answer #4 · answered by Lys 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No there is no age too young. I met my current boyfriend when I was 19. It was instant love. We now have a 2 year daughter together and we been together for 5 years. Don't listen to what people say... only you know how you feel. So many people told me when I met him that I couldn't possibly be in love at 19 and that it was only puppy love... how wrong were they?! :)
2006-08-17 16:52:01 · answer #5 · answered by Lily 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
10 is to young for being in love with someone you'd call your soulmate. You haven't seen the other half of life.
Teenagers most likely aren't in love, just some serious lust, horniness, or hormones. Trust me I am a teenager and I see it all the time.
2006-08-17 16:57:34 · answer #6 · answered by Danielle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think love knows any age. Teens aren't to young to be in love. I think people say that because they don't think teens are old enough to deal with being in love and still make rational choices. And also, sometimes when you're that young and in love it doesn't last long, but then again sometimes it last forever.
2006-08-17 16:51:01 · answer #7 · answered by Nico 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is no age for loveâ¥, we are never to young for love. Anyone can fall truly in love despite the age.
2006-08-17 16:50:28 · answer #8 · answered by Your best friend 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I thought I was in love when I was 13 were together althrough High School. Broke up 2 week after graduation. That was 1979.
2006-08-17 16:50:51 · answer #9 · answered by Myke BoDean 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are we talking Lust or Love. I think it is more a concern that the said teenager is simply lusting after someone else, rather than putting in the effort and commitment that real love requires... Hormones I guess is the difference.
2006-08-17 16:50:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋