break up with your g/f guys, and girls, what would be the best way to break up with you, with little to no feelings hurt, and with "us" guys, not having to lie. Im not breaking up with anybody but how would you do it, so you could continue being friends...
2006-08-17 16:24:55 · 18 answers · asked by 96.7 KCAL ROCKS!!! 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
well there is NO actual way of a breaking up that won't hurt even the least bit. a break up is a break up. the best way for a guy to break up with me is to meet me in person and just say the words. no excuses...no lying about why he truly wants to break up...just do it...cuz if he lies about the reasons of breaking up. well there goes any chances of being friends. friends shouldn't lie. you just gotta be honest. say the TRUE reason why you are breaking up. There is no way to make it ez and simple. there will still be feelings that get a little bit hurt....there is no getting around pain. pain is a part of life. sometimes the truth hurts. but not being honest hurts worse. trust me on that one. to find out they weren't being honest definatly hurts worse.....♥ps the break up has to be in person..so i could see that what he is saying is how he really feels.....phone break ups, email break ups, having a friend break the two of you up. well none of those work...i have to hear it from the bf..in person.............
2006-08-19 07:24:14 · answer #1 · answered by I Luv Joel Madden!! 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i can tell you that i was in a situation where my b\f was telling me that it's over and he is willing to continue as friends are you guys crazy we women don't like to be with a man that we love so darely even when the sex is good and telling us that you want to be our friend. No we rather fight it to the end knowing that if we are together we are but if we are not then you better move to a new community because we ain't accepting friendship and trust me we are trying our best to get our man back cause that's what we girl's do fight for our man no matter ever if it means some good make up sex cause we love that. ha ha ha ha ha ha ha
2006-08-17 23:34:18 · answer #2 · answered by cute_girl_shantie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honesty is always best. State your reasons for wanting to break up a nicely as you can. They may not want to be just friends right away, but at least by being honest and nice you have not burned any bridges
2006-08-17 23:29:09 · answer #3 · answered by doicu 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It depends I ways broke up with the guy and it usually was over the phone after a fight and I just wouldn't deal with his sht anymore. But when I've been dumped I just got ignored, I would have preferred a voice mail or email. I wouldn't want to be dumped in person personally. And if it was my husband, he better not be doing any dumping:)
2006-08-17 23:41:21 · answer #4 · answered by Daz 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
in my pretend world...i could just walk up and say, "ya know, this was fun, but i think we'd have more fun as friends together. i've got lots of g/f's that were so jealous when we started dating and are really hot for you," and the guy would be like, "cool!!" would that work???
2006-08-17 23:28:27 · answer #5 · answered by vrandolph62 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think talking to a girl about how you feel is the best way to go! me and my b/f just broke up and he did it over a text! which is really shady thing to do....say it to her face.....just tell the girl how you feel. being friends after dating is REALLY hard it takes time :{
2006-08-17 23:34:54 · answer #6 · answered by lalu 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well id tell em that we dont work as a couple but we would work better if we was just friends n it would be really good if we could be there for each otha as friends n when we need each otha
2006-08-17 23:28:48 · answer #7 · answered by devil_queen_biatch14 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
From the other side of the room scream "You're a bit**" and run away, later leave a message on her answering machine, "it's over whore"
2006-08-17 23:28:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Honey I really like/love you but things are not working out. Then you explain to her why, do it nicely, kiss her goodbye...and that's it for me.
2006-08-17 23:30:55 · answer #9 · answered by sassy_sexy_honey 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
just be honest it will hurt but it is the best and safest way
2006-08-17 23:33:43 · answer #10 · answered by howcor 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋