I love my husband and I am very attracted to him. But he only fulfills my desire for men. I wish I could get him to dress in drag sometimes or maybe do a threesome with another woman. I yearn for boobies!
2006-08-17 16:16:12 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
He knows I'm bi. But I don't think he's too comfortable with the idea of a threesome. Its something we've discussed before, but never delved into. I just love women too.
2006-08-17 16:28:32 · update #1
I wish my wife would want me to dress for her. Buy him something to wear and ask him to do it. Also tell him you want to be with another woman, but not for love just for the physical thing.
2006-08-19 06:44:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It kinda sucks that you may have come into this realization later in life. But, committment is comittment, whatever comittment means to you and your husband. If any of that makes him uncomfortable, it's not really fair to ask it of him. If you find something that you're both very comfortable with, then by all means, but it sounds like there's a good chance that you'll have to just accept that as a closed door in your life. Checking out girls at the mall with him sometime might be as far as he's willing to go with that. ANd you can't really blame him.
2006-08-18 13:39:20 · answer #2 · answered by Atropis 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask him his thoughts on 3somes. He may be open to giving it a try. You may have to set rules that you are both comfortable with. Or, you can always arrange the threesome with him knowing it was arranged. Set it up so you two are partying with a friend and one thing just leads to another...just don't forget to ensure he is included or you may ruin the relationship you guy have now
2006-08-17 16:29:46 · answer #3 · answered by Bryan A 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think you should ask your man if he'd like to have a threesome with another woman. many men would think you're the coolest wife in the world. that is, if you two can truly feel satisfied sharing each other with someone else. discuss it, and see what happens. couldn't hurt, now, could it?
ahh, saw your addition to the question. well, in that case, you'll just have to choose one; can't be both.
2006-08-17 21:40:47 · answer #4 · answered by kittens 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there are no possible arrangements for those things. you are married. so either you sacrifice that attraction for other women, or you have a deep conversation with him and decide what's better for your life.
its a question of what you think will make you happier.
if somehow, you engage on involving with a woman, and even having a threesome, think that it will definetely affect your relationship. have you ever thought he might like after he tries, having sex with more women?then what?
consider all this. and decide what you really want for yourself. and don't forget your husband has his feelings too.
2006-08-17 19:34:25 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its hard to deal with it if he's not supportive. you will have to keep pressing him to either let you expirament with other women, with or without him there. otherwise you will have to keep surpressing your desires which will wear you out eventually. i dont think him dressing in drag will help though. i hope you were just kidding on that one! (even if he puts on girls clothes, that wont give him boobies or the other parts your yearning for!!)
2006-08-17 16:39:05 · answer #6 · answered by Lovely L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know, it depends on the guy, but you should seriously talk about a threesome more maybe, if it doesn't make him too uncomfortable.
2006-08-18 05:05:19 · answer #7 · answered by Adam G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get him interested in men, have a 4 way since he is not so excited about a 3 way :-)
2006-08-17 16:32:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him about this, there are plenty of men who're willing to allow their wives to be with other women, but of course, those perverts have to watch ;)
Then go to Craigslist.org for the chica's
2006-08-17 16:25:05 · answer #9 · answered by HiKo73 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Keep your best friend (girl) close by.
2006-08-18 08:47:49 · answer #10 · answered by Necole 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋