Losing my sister?

Question

I am going into the 7th Grade and my sister, Lauren is going into 9th Grade.
Her and I used to always play games togaether, like spies and school. Now anytime I ask her if she wants to play somting w/ me, she replies w/ a straight foward: "NO".
Please Help, I feel like I am losing my relationship with her...

Answer 1

Your not losing her...you are growing up. You will find out that you will grow apart for awhile, she'll have her friends, you'll have yours...but when you really need each other...she'll still be there for you! Just as you need to be there for her.

Answer 2

This will only be temporary. She is feeling older now because she's in high school and thinks she's too "mature" to be playing games with her little sister. Your only two grades behind though so that means that pretty soon you'll be in high school too. Of course she'll be a Junior and you'll be a Freshman so she'll still probably feel "too old."
All this stuff will pass, however, when you get past the high school age. You are not losing your relationship with your sister, it is just changing. You are both growing up and, in a very short time, you will both be adults. You will then find that your friendship is deeper than it ever was. You will have more in common, more to talk about, more to do together. Your opportunities will be endless. Don't think about what you are losing, think about the future and what you will be gaining.

Answer 3

Don't worry you aren't losing her. You'll find out when you are older that you wouldn't want to play with someone your age when you are that age. My brother and I always played together. Now we fight a lot. But we've been getting along a lot lately and hanging out and doing stuff together. Don't worry you and your sis will be great friends again. You aren't losing her don't worry wait till she goes off to college then you'll really think you lost her. Kinda like i feel i'm losing my bro but i know he's always there for me. Cuz siblings always are there they love you even if they say they don't. They do miss you. and i'm sure your sis does want to play with you she just doesn't think it's cool right now don't worry she'll get over that.

Answer 4

You all are going through changes. She may feel some need to become more independent. It's probably nothing personal. She may want to distance herself from her little sister so she can feel older or something. I'm assuming that she may be going to another school?...if that's the case, she's wants to put her feet on her own ground and develop her own life outside of her family. It doesn't mean that she doesn't want to be your sis anymore, its just that she's growing up, as are you. If you're really bothered by it, though, you can talk to your parents about it. I went through something similar (youngest of 4), but I found that when my sibs left me alone I started doing my own thing, too. You'll be alright. You just have to adjust.

Answer 5

You are not losing her, you are just on 2 different levels at this time. In a few years things will level out again. Just keep on loving each other.

Answer 6

your sister is getting older and is already or is getting the teenage vibe in her. Teenager tend not to be in to playing. Try finding something else that you to do that is more on her level. Its not that you are losing your relationship its that your sister is changing as she is getting older. once you reach her age you will see

Answer 7

Shes just getting older.You will not lose your relationship.

Answer 8

i dont know what happen w/ you and your sis but maybe his been buzy w/ something or he maybe had buzy w/ his guy

Answer 9

ONE DAY YOU WILL CATCH UP WITH HER..STOP BEING SO JEALOUS