well guys , girl's i need help there's this guy that i barely meet i meet him because he's my friends friend so we were talking one time from 12am-7am and we were havin a good time he tolm me that he like'd my personalyty and that he "love's me" in the first night we ever talke'd he told me he love'd me do you guy's think it's TRUE? i kinda like'd him cause I actually felt comrftable with him like i could talk about anithing what do ya'll think???? oh by the way i'm barely 16 and he is about to be 16
2006-08-17 15:51:59 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
he might believe it, but its not the real deal, and i think you know that
2006-08-17 15:56:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He Does Not Love You And You Are Too Young To Be Worring About It Anyway ... Love Real Love Will Come Later In Life You Do Not Love Him Either ... Trust Me As You Get Older You Will Come To Understand All Of This And What Real Love Is Suppose To Feel Like ... You Just Have A Crush That You Think Is Love And For Sure It Is Nothing Close To It ...
2006-08-22 07:36:47 · answer #2 · answered by My Kissable Heart 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately as girls we are quick to jump on the love wagon. He probably meant it in a "you're so cute" sort of way, apposed to an "I think we should be together forever" sort of way. If he said it like he was in love with you then he is probably being a boy and telling you what he thinks you want to hear. Either way I wouldn't jump in to anything too serious to fast. True love, even if it does end up being between the two of you, probably won't come to you till you are much older. When you find love with someone you won't need to ask on the Internet.
2006-08-17 16:06:24 · answer #3 · answered by marla m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where were your parents? Are they aware that you are spending hours engaged in seductive conversations with someone whom you just become acquainted with? Some people are better conversationalists than others; however, it does not entitle them to 'compromise' your future by speaking platitude or philosophies on the concept of 'love'. It could be a ploy to attain access to your physical being under a guise of emotional promise or mental alliance. Now, that you know his position on that topic, move on to something more challenging ... like his position on the issues of Roe v. Wade, or college tuition prices. Do you know what his current grades look like? Is he building a future or is he designing a reputation for himself as a smooth talker? What did his parents say when you told them about all you talked to him about? If you are embarrassed to tell them everything that was said, chances are that you are being manipulated and used inappropriately. Discussion is good. Expressing ones feelings and desires are an important part of growing up..it is much safer to do so in prose such as papers or poetry than it is to experiment with something that is counted as illegal in all 50 states. Guard your feelings ... someone could exploit your opinions and embarrass you later...years from now with 'what you said .. back then.'
2006-08-23 08:08:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't love you, he just wants some pussy, like all guys his age. If he really liked you, then he would have taken the time to try to really get to know you, then just telling you that he loves you in one night. It takes years to really get to know a person, and you still might not know each other all that well. Don't fall for that ****, cuz he just wants you to give it up. Believe me, I know. I'm 19, and I've had 10 boyfriends since I was 15 years old in high school, so I have a lot of experience with guys lying to me to try to get what they want- what all guys really want, which is sex.
2006-08-17 16:29:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No he doesn't love you sweetie, its a line. Meaning he wants to have sex with you. So they feed you these lines, they think you want to hear. In order to get in your pants. Tell him don't even think about it and please be smart about it honey. When I was your age I was so gullible, believed anything a man would tell me. Make sure you have someone that's just a little bit older than you that you can talk to about stuff like this. Like a mentor or something. Anyways good luck! If i guy feels like your weak or gullable he will run all over you!
2006-08-25 11:16:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well...um...thats kind of random but any Way just because you talked to him for a hole day doesn't mean he loves you i mean i talk to my friends guy friends allot and I've talked to a boy for a hole day i just met and we just became good friends that's it nothing more i understand if you knew him for a long time but that's pretty sudden plus hes to Young to know what love really is so tell him right now we should be just friends and work your way up to a relationship OK,so don't worry even if he didn't take it well you've done your part.there is plenty of fish in the sea!!!and right now the only people you should love is your friends and family!
2006-08-17 16:19:11 · answer #7 · answered by 割れたガラスを通しての美しさ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this is probably not what you want to hear, but I don't think that he "loves" you. I think that maybe he's just attracted to you. A lot of people misuse the word "love" and mistake it for a concept to be thrown around any old way. He just met you. He can't possibly love you. He may like you, but he don't love you.
2006-08-24 04:29:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey he does not love you, im 16 years old. And believe he does not love you ok?? He might really like you and because he likes you his hormones are rushing (which is VERY NORMAL), and that makes some people get confuse,ok? Another tip, boys his age....they are very excited (if you know what i mean), and they want to do anything that has a skirt ok? So be careful because you sound like a very innocent girl (WHICH ITS NOT BAD), but there's a saying from where i come which is " UNO ES MANSO, PERO NO MENSO", it means one can be calm, but not dumb. ok?
2006-08-25 07:45:48 · answer #9 · answered by lacosteña 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love doesn't happen over night...in some cases it takes YEARS to determine you truly love someone. Just because you like what people talk about doesn't give them the honor to deserve your love...a guy HAS TO earn your love...that takes a significant amount of trial and error!
2006-08-23 05:35:38 · answer #10 · answered by Benny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably LOVED the conversation, and LOVED the sound of your voice and LOVED having someone to talk to and LOVED the attention. But yeah, he probably likes you. Have fun, you are almost 16 and there will be lots of other all night conversations with other guys that are going to LOVE talking to you.
2006-08-25 07:26:23 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋