A little while ago I asked you guys what do I do if a guy asked me to a dance and I don't really want to go with him!!! But... another guy asked me, and they just keep asking me and asking me, WHAT DO I DO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-08-17 15:51:31 · 5 answers · asked by Amelia:] 5 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
well i mean im a girl but i know where you are coming from becasue its happened to me....its like you dont want to make them feel bad but you just really dont want to dance with them? yea i know all about that. i jstu finnaly danced with him cause no one else did and it made him feel good and i mean it didnt kill me and after all i kinda felt good for makeing him feel good
2006-08-17 16:04:06 · answer #1 · answered by Weaze! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him the truth in a nice sort of way. Like :
1.You are excited about going with your friends and that they would be disappointed if you ditched them.
2. You like another boy. This works especially well if you actually have a date with the other boy.
3. You aren't going to the dance because you have plans with your family/friends.
You could also offer to have one dance with him.
A direct reply in a kind way is usually best.
In example...." I'm sorry I've been planning on going with my best Friend and we are both really excited about it. " If he is still persistent just tell him that you aren't interested in him that way. Everybody has been there and as long as you aren't mean about it he will understand.
2006-08-17 23:18:43 · answer #2 · answered by marla m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say no to any guys u dont wanna go wit...say yes to 1 u do
2006-08-18 00:17:06 · answer #3 · answered by ♣BrownEyedBeauty♣ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell them u don;t want to
2006-08-18 00:08:30 · answer #4 · answered by Shanny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say thanks for the offer but you've got a boyfriend or that you are going with someone else :)
2006-08-17 22:58:11 · answer #5 · answered by Bellarockafella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋