ok...most people know me as the 14 year old who have sex like a 21 year old, but any way, my b-day is coming up and of coarse Im going to do stuff
but, I cursed myself by laughing at people who became pregnant so I want 2 have a plan in case it happens to me
2006-08-17 15:49:46 · 27 answers · asked by Alasia C 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
people my mom did put me on birth control and i do use condoms Im just saying WHAT IF
2006-08-17 16:05:05 · update #1
God help us
2006-08-17 15:53:28 · answer #1 · answered by hipergirl22 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Abortions are serious business. Do not have sex if you are not old enough to take care of a baby with a significant other. Abortion isn't just a back up plan. It is killing human life. You should go get the Birth Control Patch,Pill,and the best item that you can use quickly and 98% effective is the condom if used correctly. If for some reason,you didn't take precaution,which you have time too if you have time to post this...Go get the Plan B if you are pregnant. You will need to go to PLanned Parenthood and they give it to you. It stops the sperm from fertilizing the egg before conception can take place. Be smart about it,and try to get protection now,a baby would be very hard to raise at your age!
2006-08-17 22:57:43 · answer #2 · answered by Holly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Abortion= Murder
I could understand if you were raped or something and ended up pregnant or if it was a serious medical hazard to you and the baby....
But saying that you want to have sex, you just aren't mature and responsible enough to take care of the outcome of sex isn't very fair!!!! I am not trying to judge you, i praise you for being curious about your options beforehand... most girls your age don't care about options. I also praise you b/c you are on the pill and you do intend to use condoms....
My best advice.... BE EXTRA CAREFUL!!!! Abortion is a long term decision.... and it may seem like nothing now, but 90% of the young women that get abortion, later regret it tremendously after it happens!!!
Have you ever thought about adoption?????? There are plenty of people out there that can not physically get pregnant for whatever reason.... that would love to give a child the love and care it deserves.... you should definately give that a thought... if you were to get pregnant!!!!
Happy Birthday and be safe!!
2006-08-21 19:41:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the state in which you live. You really need to take a look at:
Photos of Abortions, Including 1st Trimester Abortions:
http://www.cbrinfo.org/Resources/pictures.html
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http://www.abort73.com/HTML/I-A-4-video.html
Information on All Aspects of Abortion:
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Photos and Facts About Prenatal Development:
http://www.justthefacts.org/clar.asp
http://www.abort73.com/HTML/I-A-2-prenatal.html
http://www.studentsforlife.uct.ac.za/foetal%20dev%20photos.html
http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/in_pictures/3847319.stm
Abortion Stories:
http://abortiontv.com/Words/truestoriesfrom-mothers.htm
http://www.abort73.com/HTML/I-G-2-testimony.html
Abortion Risks:
http://afterabortion.info/complic.html
http://www.abortionfacts.com/reardon/effect_of_abortion.asp
Abortion Deaths:
http://www.lifedynamics.com/Pro-life_Group/Pro-choice_Women
http://www.afterabortion.info/news/abortiondeaths.html
http://www.lifeissues.org/ru486/deaths.htm
Free, Confidential Pregnancy Help::
http://www.optionline.org/advantage.asp
Support for Pregnant Teens:
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2006-08-18 09:42:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know that in the states a 14 year old having sex with a 21 year old is called statutory rape. He can wind up in prison. If you live in the states you would have to find out what your individual state laws are regarding abortions for minors. Most states require at least Parental notification so even if you don't have to GO there with your parents it is the LAW that they have to be notified. The best way to avoid all of it is to not have sex at all.
2006-08-17 22:55:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Honey, don't. If you become pregnant (which I hope your Mother raised you with enough SENSE to not do!), it is a living being. There is a heartbeat within the first two weeks of conception. When our society disregards life through means such as abortion, how much better are we than those that seek to kill us in other countries?
2006-08-17 22:56:25 · answer #6 · answered by Mommymonster 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, use birth control, such as condoms.
Regarding abortion: I think it depends on what state you live in. Call your local Planned Parenthood (in the phone book) and ask.
2006-08-17 22:57:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you do not want to get pregnant then STOP HAVING SEX. You are not an adult...you are a child. You already know that having sex can lead to babies, STDS and AIDS then you need to stop having sex till you are an adult. Right now you are not an adult whatsoever.
2006-08-19 13:54:51 · answer #8 · answered by Coast2CoastChat.com 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel sweetheart you need to go right away to a Dr. not with an adult, but 2 adults.... your parents,for some counseling,don't wait to get pregnant and go for an abortion.
2006-08-18 02:35:58 · answer #9 · answered by Alan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dun do it now!!!! sure you'll regret it later!!! wait for u get much more older,then u'll enjoy it more!!!! if u still want to do it please use extra precautions like condom!! this will reduce not only the possibilities of pregnancy but STD as well!!!!! make sure u think carefully!!!! it might hurt u if really not ready!!!!!! if u make mistakes it might has effect on your whole life!!! dun waste ur life just for this few seconds pleasure!!!
2006-08-17 23:06:47 · answer #10 · answered by pierre m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop your wanting to have sex and learn how to write a full sentence and spell. It's Of course..NOt of coarse...Stupid son of a *****. Your actually PROUD of that title as the fouteen year old who ***** like a twenty-one year old?
You need to get raped.
2006-08-18 00:40:04 · answer #11 · answered by Ms.Help 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋