Im a b-sexual man and people know that i am but i always denying it from them because im affraid of descrimination and maybe acceptance is is not up to it.
2006-08-17 15:43:04 · 46 answers · asked by harold 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Only if you believe so.
2006-08-17 15:48:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm sorry that you feel you can't live an honest life. Just be yourself. This is a big problem with humans ... we're all afraid of what other people think. I know I was like that growing up, always trying to please other people. Now that I am in my mid-life (50's) I know that is a big, fat lie that we tell ourselves. The people that are truly happy in this life are those who live their lives to the fullest. And that means being real and truthful and honest.
The only way to be happy is to do what YOU want, not what other people dictate or expect. You can't ever, ever live up to other people's expectations. No one can.
According to some religions, homosexual acts are a sin. Not being a homosexual or a bi-sexual, but engaging in the act. If you subscribe to a religion that believes this, then you must have an inner struggle going on. I suggest that you speak to someone about how you feel. Remember, feelings are NEVER wrong. NEVER. They are valid and true for you.
And as far as sin, well, only God, if you believe in God, will judge you, not anyone else. I don't care what all the spiritual thugs think, NO ONE knows the mind of God. NO ONE.
I wish you peace.
2006-08-25 15:20:46 · answer #2 · answered by gobba55 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You being b-sexual and hiding the fact isn't too safe. You're playing a deadly game by sheltering your preference with your life and the life of your partners. It's a basic fact in life that everyone isn't gonna like you or even give you the time of day. So don't put too much interest on being " Accepted" because no one is truly accepted for everything they succeed or fail @. Just be honest and true to yourself and the ones you love, the effect will be worth it. And remember be safe (use condoms) and tell the truth to your partners even if they reject you; life will go on.
2006-08-22 03:27:08 · answer #3 · answered by pink81088 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think not but I am sure there are those who dissagree. I am not gay but I am always arguing with my sister about gays. I believe that people who are gay cant help being gay, she strongly dissagrees also she doesnt think a gay person can go to heaven, I disagree. why would something you cant help like your sexuality be a sin. I just dont get it. and besides God loves all the little children of the world. so dont worry about that stuff.
2006-08-25 08:55:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is as much a sin as those who have sex out of wedlock, those who work on Sundays, those who wear clothes that show too much skin. I really wonder why nobody discriminates people who do that?? For those who are into the Bible, funny thing is why is this sin thing only applicable to some aspects of life but not to others? For those who judge and claim it to be a slap in god's face... are you sure YOU yourself are free of ALL the flaws you claim to come from the Holy Book?
For me... as long as your lifestyle doesn't hurt, harm or maim... I don't think its a sin...
What do you think is more sinful...? A gay person or a terrorist? A person having sex or a person sexed up to kill the masses?
2006-08-17 15:58:50 · answer #5 · answered by Sheena 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Not trying to be rude but Yes it is a sin but you can ask for forgiveness and be forgiven......
The Bible tells us that being gay is wrong. Homosexuality is a sin in God's eyes in both the Old and New Testaments. The Bible tells us in Romans 1:26 that homosexuality is against nature, it is an unnatural act. That means not one single person ever was or ever will be born homosexual. God is a God of love and fairness and would not call something a sin if there was absolutely no way for the person to stop committing that sin
Leviticus 20:13
V13 If a man also lie with mankind, as he lieth with a woman, both of them have committed an abomination: they shall surely be put to death; their blood shall be upon them.
Romans chapter 1
V27 And likewise also the men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust one toward another; men with men working that which is unseemly, and receiving in themselves that recompence of their error which was meet.
2006-08-25 09:58:15 · answer #6 · answered by Natural_Woman 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't discriminate a persons sexual preference and judge them whether it is right or wrong, but if you feel in your heart that it is wrong and have that doubt when "in the mix" of things then yes. Also my advise to you is don't care what others think you only live once live it to keep YOU happy, besides most of the time the ones doing the discriminating are doing some off-the-wall s**t behind closed doors themselves.
2006-08-25 06:50:18 · answer #7 · answered by avon_1924 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am agnostic so I believe as long as you are honest in your heart and in your life than you'll be fine. I know that many religions will tell you that it is wrong.... a sin against God...etc etc. I also believe that if more people came out of the closet openly and honestly and then voted.... there would then be the right of marriage for homosexuals. Life your live and be happy.... carry mase in case though!
2006-08-17 16:19:42 · answer #8 · answered by munkeybusines 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There are no sins,keep that in mind.u have the same rights in pleasure and in love as straights.Actually I don't see why the word"straight"exists.just do what u love and don't be afraid of it or ashamed of it.Negative discrimination exists but ignore people who will judge u for that coz they won't worth it.these people are afraid of anything different and have complexes.Be with those u love and life will be great.Life is a gift on its own with all the sadness and the happiness,all your choices and natural talents,all your faults and advantages.
2006-08-25 07:14:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, homosexuality is not a sin. some people believe it is, which is why you will face discrimination if you come out. however, unless you are at extreme risk for discrimination (like you live in a very anti-gay neighborhood and fear for your physical safety) I think you should come out. there's nothing wrong with homosexuality and true friends wil accept you for who you are. confide in those who accept you, and try to avoid (difficult as it is) those who won't. hopefully someday this world will learn that there is nothing wrong with being gay or bisexual. I wish you the best of luck.
2006-08-17 15:52:13 · answer #10 · answered by Blondie 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
historically speaking, bisexuality and homosexuality were considered the "norm" before the rise of christianity as a religion, so only those of the judeo-christian religions feel that way. those of us that do not heed the judeo-christian call typically do not feel that sexual orientation of any type is wrong or a sin.
sin is defined by religious boundaries only. not all religions accept the bible or koran as the basis for belief.
2006-08-25 12:01:01 · answer #11 · answered by bbwgoddess60 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋