Yes, I know I ask for miracles. I ask for someone to just listen and maybe hold me for comfort. Is this difficult to understand? Can men do this?
2006-08-17 15:16:47 · 18 answers · asked by kishoti 5 in Health ➔ Men's Health
Ha! Yes that would be a miracle. I have found (somewhat) that men sometimes need to be told what to do. SPECIFICALLY! They don't understand hints or subtle messages. They just don't get it. You need to order them around like you are their mother. Of course, some men might take offense to this, so you have to do it gently. But don't expect them to pick up on your hints. Tell them flat out what to do. (Don't expect them to remember from last time either!)
2006-08-17 15:23:31 · answer #1 · answered by Ann 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't. Male hormones are in control at that age.
Well maybe if you withold sex until he does what you want he might listen.
That's not a good idea with a man in his 20s. It'll just give him an excuse to find it elsewhere.
If you need someone who will listen to you date older men.
If you need a sex machine try to overlook his weakness. (especially if it's your body )
He'll eventually slow down and you'll be longing for the good old days.
2006-08-17 15:58:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No matter how old they are they don't listen. Try going somewhere there is no TV, radio, or other distractions and no place for him to go but be with you.
Or just try to do what he does, answer him the same way he does, maybe he will get the hint
2006-08-17 15:23:05 · answer #3 · answered by LC 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I cry while i'm annoyed or in a lot of soreness.... Your companion desires to renowned why or they does not ask. in basic terms tell them. They get to help, you get to sense greater clever. no longer something solves no longer something.
2016-09-29 09:39:34 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure they can they just have to want to. Try giving him the book men are from mars women are from venus it will help you both to understand the other one better. Plus it is a great read.
2006-08-17 15:21:54 · answer #5 · answered by Jackie G 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
no men cant do this we arent built for this type of thing we are taught at a very very early age to be rough and tough stret smarts, we just dont have it inn us thats life, we are no chaise lounge here, we are taught never too cry or show fear or emotions any true american boy or mann wil ll tell you this look it just isent our thing sorie deal with it yourself iam no chaise lounge too dump your troublles on i got my car to work onn have a nice day now!! and ge t me a ber and shut up now!!
2006-08-17 15:23:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No male under the age of 35 has a clue about what you are trying to describe.
2006-08-17 15:21:43 · answer #7 · answered by Isis 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You have to ask for what you want do not assume they just know you want to be held and not touched tonight. Unfortunately it will be difficult for them to do just that - sorry.
2006-08-17 15:23:07 · answer #8 · answered by Just ME 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You might want to look into dating older men, honestly once their libido calms down, they start to listen.
2006-08-17 15:22:08 · answer #9 · answered by Carol R 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Look into her eyes when she is talking and don't look around and away. Do it with intent for 30 days and things will change.
2006-08-17 15:21:40 · answer #10 · answered by Jim W 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋