before i get off..................if people think you and a guy are going out, but you're not really, should you go further or stop them?
Help, I don't get my friends?
I need some wise answers...........;(
2006-08-17 15:07:44 · 13 answers · asked by bekka 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
b patient.
just dont bother.
life has its own ways of straightening things out.
2006-08-17 15:13:41 · answer #1 · answered by hsarora47 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Does the guy know this rumor is going around? Are your friends spreading this rumor, KNOWING it's not true, or do they believe you ARE seeing this guy? If he doesn't know, and you allow your friends to think this...one day someone will ask him or mention you, and when he tells them it's not true...it will probably be a rather embarassing situation. I'd stop them before it gets too far. If you tell them the truth now, they may be upset with you for a little bit, but they'll know you had the integrity and maturity to want honesty over a fib.
2006-08-17 22:16:40 · answer #2 · answered by Lisa E 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
don't get the question what do youmean go further. Just ignore them it will stop. INcollege peopel where convinced my friend and I were involved but we were not. NOw we are both married to different people and our friends laugh about them even thinking we were together
2006-08-17 22:12:49 · answer #3 · answered by GutsiePerson 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Depends on if you like the guy or not.
If you do, take thing's to a different level. If not.. ah.. the other's will eventually leave you alone in time.
Trying to stop them won't do any good.. you can briefly tell them you aren't seeing one another, and eventually they'll get the idea. :)
2006-08-17 22:15:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If people think you are going out with a guy and you are not you need to correct them.
2006-08-17 22:12:32 · answer #5 · answered by strawberries 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
y r yr friends abonden u when u got out wit a guy?
you shd go further and stop them thinkin u r going out wit him if u need to..
2006-08-17 22:14:17 · answer #6 · answered by Mobiken 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Set the record straight. It'd prevent awkward situations and complicating the matter.
2006-08-17 22:12:37 · answer #7 · answered by pinkrosez711 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
this sounds stupid to me. relationships are not about what other people think. it is about you and the person involved in the relationship. if you are going out, you are going out. if you are not you are not. thats about as wise as it gets!
2006-08-17 22:22:31 · answer #8 · answered by Lovely L 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i had this problem just tell them the truth. stay friends with this guy dont let what they are saying get to you. if they dont believe you after yu tell them then who are they to say if you are or not. set them straight.
2006-08-17 22:15:21 · answer #9 · answered by been there done that 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you want wise answers.............than ask a wise question. Not an immature one.
2006-08-17 22:15:47 · answer #10 · answered by Nana 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋